FR. ROBERT J. COLE PASTOR - 2007

Christmas Day 2007
I know that you’ve all heard of a white Christmas and that you know about a Christmas that takes place on a silent night. But have you ever heard of a compromised Christmas? A compromised Christmas is not as attractive or poetic as a silent or a white one, but I want you to know that it’s even more beautiful and certainly more valuable.
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The Gospel today said that Zacchaeus
wanted to see Jesus but because of the crowd he had to climb a tree to do so
because he was short of stature. Now this may not seem to be a very important
detail about him. However, when you realize how rarely, if ever, the Scriptures
give any physical description of any character in the Biblical accounts, we
should pay attention to any detail that does appear about someone’s physical
appearance. For example, notice that the Gospels don’t record a single physical
description of Jesus. We don’t know his height, his facial features, whether
or not he had a beard. We don’t know the color of his eyes or the color of his
hair, or even if He had hair. Maybe He was bald. These details would never be
omitted from a modern biographer’s account of a famous person. But the Bible
don’t mention any of these kinds of details. Why? Well, the writers of the
Scriptures just didn’t share our curiosity about such matters. They thought,
who cares? So, when the Bible does record a physical description, we should
probably sit up and take notice. Sunday, October 21, 2007
Did I ever tell you the story about the big, burley man who walked into the
grocery store one day, went to the young clerk and said, “I want to buy a half a
head of cabbage.” The kid looked up at him and said, “I’m sorry, sir, but we
only sell whole heads.” The man glared at him, got in his face and said quite
emphatically, “Listen, buddy, I don’t want a whole head. I only want a half a
head. Now are you going to sell it to me or not?” Rather meekly the clerk said,
“Just a minute. I’ll ask the manager.” He walked down the aisle and into the
stockroom where the manager was unpacking produce. The young man said, “Hey,
there’s a big, stupid-looking guy out there and he wants to buy a half a head of
cabbage.” Just then he heard a noise behind him. He turned to see that the man
had followed him and heard every word he had said. Turning back to the manager
he said, “And this gentleman would like to purchase the other half of the
head.” Sunday, October 14, 2007
One of the most unique things about us human beings is that we’re the only
living things on earth that don't automatically mature to be what we’re supposed
to be. Puppies become dogs. Saplings become trees. Bulbs become tulips. But in
our case, certain choices and decisions have to be made, certain things have to
happen before we develop into wise and mature adults. And unless we make the
right decisions and choices, it’s possible for us to become less than what we
were created to be. We may be mature on the outside but we can still be very
immature and undeveloped on the inside where it really matters, where it really
counts. Sunday, October 7th 2007
In today's Gospel, our Lord told a story that never has been and probably never
will be widely popular. In fact, I’ll bet most people aren’t even aware of it.
And those who are would probably prefer that He had never told it. There’s a
harshness to it that seems to violate our every image of Jesus as a kind and
caring person. Sunday, September 30,
2007
There are few people today who have never heard of a disease called
“Alzheimer’s”. Many of you here may know someone, maybe even a family member,
who suffers from this terrible ailment. Its primary victims are older people and
its primary symptom is loss of memory. People with this disease will often
forget who they are, where they live and the names of their loved ones. I was
talking to a man not too long ago who said he was helping his wife get dressed
in the morning and he gave her a wash cloth and told her to wash her face. She
just looked at him and said, “Where’s my face.” Alzheimer’s is a devastating
disease. To take away one’s memory is to take away one’s life. The tragic loss
of memory serves to remind us how important it is in our life. State of the Parish As you know, this past year we have joined with every other parish in our
diocese in the process of clustering. Each of the 231 parishes in the Cleveland
diocese has been assigned to one of 69 clusters. With the population move from
the cities to suburbs over these past 30 or 40 years, some parishes have lost a
large number of people and others, like ours, have gained significant numbers.
Also, because of the increasing cost of running schools and maintaining churches
there is a need to look for more creative, efficient and cost effective ways to
function. Add to that the aging of the clergy and the significant decline in
numbers of those being ordained and, whether we like it or not, we have to look
for new and better ways to operate if we’re going to maintain a vibrant parish
life. Fr. Robert J. Cole Pastor In one of Aesop’s fables there’s the story about a frog who dreamed of being
able to fly. His world was confined to a muddy swamp and his desire of seeing it
from above seemed hopeless. Then one day a stork landed near him, looking for
minnows that swam in the shallow water. While the stork waited patiently to
snare a fish, the frog struck up a conversation. He asked him what it was like
to fly and about the sights he would never see since he was bound to the ground.
The bird replied that the world was indeed beautiful beyond the frog’s
imagining. As he listened, the frog got an idea. He offered to help the stork
find where the fish were hiding in exchange for a ride up into the sky. Fr. Robert J. Cole Pastor
Zacchaeus is described as very short. The Greek word used to describe him was
“micros”, from which we get the word “microscopic”. So, he was certainly
vertically challenged. Besides helping us understand why a grown man would
climb a tree to see Jesus pass by, what’s the significance of this reference to
his short height?
Just imagine what it must have been like for Zacchaeus as he grew up. All his
life he must have been the victim of insensitive jokes and comments about his
shortness. He was probably pushed around by bullies as a child, always shorter
than the girls whose attention and affection he must have sought as a teenager,
always living under the cloud of resentment and insult as he struggled to live
in a world of giants. Maybe Zacchaeus made a childhood vow that “one day,
they'll all lookup to me.” And to compensate for his lack of height, He learned
to be ruthless as he got older. Could the war within him over his physical
condition be the explanation for the man he became in later life? If so, he
would not be the first nor the last person whose bruised adulthood began with a
wounded childhood.
We also know that Zacchaeus was rich. In fact, he was very rich. Now, at first
glance, we might think his wealth was something positive about him. Obviously,
he was a hard worker. But when you consider the context in Luke’s Gospel where
this story appears, we realize that Luke is telling us that Zacchaeus was not a
very likable individual. Just the chapter before this one, Luke told about a
rich ruler who sought to follow our Lord but who failed to do so because of his
great wealth. As Jesus watched that rich man leave, He remarked with great
sadness, “How difficult it is for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of God.
It’s easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man
to enter the Kingdom of God.” And now, right on the heels of that story, Luke
introduces us to Zacchaeus, a man of enormous wealth. But to make matters
worse, the rich ruler of the previous chapter was at least a good, God-fearing,
commandment-honoring individual. Zacchaeus, by contrast, was a total
reprobate. As a tax collector, he was an extortionist and crook who defrauded
his own people. When he was born, his Jewish parents probably named him
Zachariah, a cherished and honored Jewish name that meant “righteous one.” But
over the years, he failed to live up to that name and it was shortened, no pun
intended, to Zacchaeus. He was a chief tax collector, a man who cheated anyone
and everyone in order to earn an extra shekel.
Zacchaeus was the town’s chief sinner according to every religious, political or
polite standard one could imagine. And Luke’s Gospel is full of stories where
wealth is a signal of bad things to come. Do you remember the story of the rich
foolish farmer who died while planning his retirement and building bigger barns
to store his stuff? Or the story about the rich man who ended up in torment
because he didn’t show mercy to the beggar Lazarus?
But then, just when we’re tempted to read Luke’s account as a condemnation of
all riches and all rich people, here is this story of Zacchaeus, a sawed off
shyster of a man, a swindler and a crook who made his wealth in the worst ways
possible, but who ended up at the table with the Lord, welcomed in the Kingdom
of God. As the kids would say today, “What’s up with that?”
Well, the third thing and the main thing we know about Zacchaeus is that he was
still a child of Abraham, a child of God, a child of promise and redemption.
This is really the point of the story about him. If that man, with so much
baggage from the sins of others against him as well as the enormous baggage of
the sins he committed against others in return, if that man can be redeemed,
then anyone can be redeemed. Wealth or the absence of wealth, isn’t a predictor
of spiritual status after all. The opinions of an entire village don’t count as
much as the opinion of God. And whatever one’s past, no matter how wrong, how
sinful, how misdirected, there is always a possible new future because of God’s
grace, if we’ll just accept the invitation of Christ.
To the surprise and disgust of most of the proper people in the town, Jesus
ended up saying about Zacchaeus, “This one, too, is a son of Abraham.” In other
words, Jesus welcomed him back into the community of faith by returning to him
his true name, calling him again a righteous one in the family of God.
And with that amazing word of grace, as they celebrated around a table,
Zacchaeus was so overwhelmed by God’s love for him that it soaked all the way to
his wallet. And the former tax collector became a wealth dispenser, splashing
grace everywhere in the same way it had come to him. Was it a miracle? Oh,
yes. It was the day that a camel passed through the eye of a needle.
Let none of us ever think that we are beyond hope, beyond redemption or beyond
the mercy of God. Let none of us ever believe that anything we’ve done or we’ve
failed to do lessens us in the eyes of God. And let none of us ever forget
that, whatever our age, we still are and always will be a child of God, loved,
forgiven and saved by the One who has given us a share in his very life.
Now, we can split cabbages and we can split hairs but we can’t be half hearted
or take halfway measures in our yearning for God or in our conforming our life
to his ways. And we can draw this lesson from the story we just heard in the
Gospel about the poor widow’s persistence in her pursuit for justice as she
stood alone and defenseless before a corrupt judge.
In our Lord’s time, being a wife wasn’t easy. It was almost like being a slave.
She had few rights. She couldn’t divorce her husband but her husband could
divorce her with a stroke of a pen. She was considered as just another of her
husband’s possessions, along with the house, land and oxen. And she had to do
much of the hard work.
However, she did have some protection by law but when her husband died, her
rather meager economic and social status deteriorated immensely. Because she
couldn’t inherit anything from him, a widow joined the ranks of orphans and
impoverished and she was indeed a charity case.
In Jesus’ parable, a poor widow stood before a crooked judge who couldn’t have
cared less about her. Time after time, the widow came before him and said, “I
want justice from you.” And time after time, she was denied. But she kept coming
and coming. Finally, the weary judge gave into the woman’s persistence. He said,
“While it’s true that I neither fear God nor respect any human being, because
this widow keeps bothering me I’ll deliver a just decision for her.” The judge
was literally nagged into doing the right thing.
Our Lord drew a lesson from this parable by saying. “Will not God then secure
the rights of his chosen ones who call out to Him day and night? I tell you,
He’ll see to it that justice is done for them speedily.”
To really understand the parable, you have to understand the biblical concept of
justice. We tend to use the word in terms of a “fair administration of the law.”
But that’s not the way the Bible understands it. The Scriptures speak of two
kinds of justice, divine justice and human justice.
Divine justice, God’s justice, means that God is always faithful to his
promises. God is always faithful to his word. God always does what He says He’ll
do. God is just, not because He rewards good and punishes evil. God is just
because He is forever faithful to the Words He speaks and to the ones He loves.
Human justice is what we’re called to, which is to acknowledge in word and in
deed that God is our Father, that Jesus is his Son and that we are brothers and
sisters in his Holy Spirit. Our acting justly to one another is respecting the
reality of who we are and it’s a responding to God’s fidelity to us with our
fidelity to Him and each other. It means that we persistently and consistently
turn to God who will not reluctantly show us his justice like the corrupt judge
but who will honestly and earnestly desire us to know how much on our side He
really is.
I think that sometimes we’re our own worst enemy. I think there are times that
we don’t really believe that God is on our side, that we don’t really think that
God cares that much about us individually.
Do you really believe that God knows and understands what you went through
today, and every day? Do you really believe that today God shared your smiles as
well as those things that brought you worry or sorrow? Do you really believe
that God hurts when you hurt, that He laughs when you laugh and that He holds
you in the palm of his hands?
That’s the glory of being a Christian -- because we can believe, because we can
know, because we can trust that the God of all creation is that deeply in love
with us and will be with us through thick and thin. And that’s especially the
glory of being Catholic -- because we not only believe that but we celebrate
that in the Eucharist. How much closer can God get to us than when we receive
Him in Holy Communion? How much more can He convince us of his love for us than
when He invites us to share his very life? And how much more can we be charged
to treat one another fairly and justly than when we’re reminded that we’re all
drawn together as brothers and sisters in Christ?
I think it would be good for all of us to ask ourself if we think that those
around us would say that we treat them with justice, that we’re true to our word
and faithful to our promises. Let’s not forget that when we stand before the
mirror on Judgment Day and we look at the deeds of our life, hopefully we’ll see
reflected back to us a true fidelity to Jesus Christ and his Gospel. Hopefully,
we’ll see that we’ve treated God justly because we recognized his fidelity to us
and we’ve treated those around us justly because we treated them as sisters and
brothers in Christ.
That’s how we give God glory. That’s how we give God honor. And that’s how we
give ourself the assurance that we’ll have no fear of standing before God on
that day of judgment.
The grand thing about the coming of Christ is that He shows us what it means to
be a full human person. One of the attitudes that Jesus possessed and an
attitude that really is necessary in any healthy, happy and holy personality is
what we found in the first and third readings of today’s Mass.
Both of them were stories of people who knew in their heart that God had touched
their life in some way and they were humbled by it. And as a result they wanted
to express their appreciation both in word and in deed. They were grateful, they
were thankful, they felt indebted for what God had done for them. And I think
it’s vital for us to realize that without that sense of indebtedness, we can
never be mature and balanced and healthy human beings.
I know people, and I assume you do too, who take a lot of things in life for
granted. In fact, they take much too much for granted. And it probably shows
itself in the kinds of prayers they say. Did you ever hear the story about the
two angels who were sent by God to earth to gather up the world’s prayers? One
angel was to fill a basket with the prayers of petition that were said and the
other angel was told to gather all the prayers of thanksgiving that were
offered. Some time later, they returned to God’s throne. One had a basket
heaping high and running over with innumerable requests of every kind and shape.
The other angel returned with a sad and heavy heart because his basket was
almost empty.
To be able to speak with appreciation and gratitude to God, as well as to one’s
family and friends, is one of those qualities possessed by holy people which is
a holiness to which all of us are called. In the 1950s there was a Secretary
General of the U.N. named Dag Hammerskjold. I remember as a teenager reading
how he was killed in a plane crash while on a peace mission in Africa in 1961.
Years later his private journal was published, a book called “Markings”. It was
a kind of a spiritual diary of his in which he struggled with a deeply personal
and private faith in the context of his calling to one of the most visible and
influential offices in international politics. I’ll always remember one quote of
his out of that book. It simply went, “Lord, for all that has been, thanks. For
all that will be, yes.”
I’m sure that line puzzles many people. Some wonder if that means we should be
thankful for having bad days, for experiencing personal failures, for suffering
injustice, for making mistakes and even for committing sins? “For all that has
been, thanks.”
Well, maybe we should. Maybe the way to look at things like that is that there
is a reason to be thankful for even the unpleasant and trying events in life —
if we’ve learned from them, if we’ve grown in a sense of our fundamental
helplessness and our dependency on God to get us through difficult times. We
need to realize that, in the grand scheme of things, there is more good than
evil in this world and that God has personally touched each one of us and
blessed us with so much that we’d be amazed if we ever took time to really look
for it. It’s all too easy for or us to see the bad and ignore the good, to count
our crosses and not our blessings and to complain about what God hasn’t done for
us rather than what He has done. What a perfect prayer. For all that has been,
thanks.
It wasn’t by accident that even before what we’re now doing became called the
Mass, it was called the Eucharist, a word that means “Thanksgiving.” The first
believers in Jesus saw the Eucharist as an action for people of faith to come
together as a community in order to thank God for having touched them through
Jesus Christ and having graced them with the Holy Spirit.
It’s from the simple action of reading the Word of God and sharing the Bread of
Life that this more elaborate ritual of today’s Mass has developed. But the
meaning is the same. We’re here to give thanks. And if someone has nothing to be
thankful for, it’s really sad because it means that for them the Mass is
probably an empty investment of 50 - 55 minutes every week.
It’s troubling to hear people sometimes say, “I don’t get anything out of Mass”
because it means that they’ve come here to get something rather than to give
something. It’s sad to see people not realize that, even in life’s painful and
hurting moments, they need to give thanks that God is really there to strengthen
them, to sustain them and to love them in their struggles.
There’s a beautiful and true story of a mother who had several children, one of
whom was being picked on in school. The mother agonized for days over what to do
about it. Finally, she decided the best thing to do was to keep out of it.
Having made that decision, she soon began to have second thoughts and she
worried that she might be wrong to let her son work out his problems by himself.
For days she had difficulty sleeping. Finally, one afternoon she got into her
car and drove out into the country, just to get away from it for a few hours.
After a while, she pulled off to the side of the road, put her head on the wheel
and wept. When she was all cried out, she picked up her head and looked out in
wonder at a field of golden wheat that she was parked next to.
At first, she was overwhelmed by the beauty of the wheat waving in the wind. But
as she watched it for a while, she realized that there was something more going
on. And I want to read to you her words. She said, “I know God was saying
something to me in that wheat field. And so, I dried my eyes and I let the
glories of that field pour into me. I began to experience the love of God in my
life. God didn’t send me any easy solution to my problem, just the assurance of
his knowing and his caring. And that was enough because I knew that the same
Fatherly love would reach down to touch my hurting child.”
There’s a woman of keen insight and of deep faith. She knew that, in the midst
of her wonders and her worries, God was present. She knew she’d been touched by
the Lord and healed as surely as was the leper in the Gospel and Naaman in the
first reading. Here was a woman who had reason to celebrate Eucharist. No one
needs to wonder what kind of prayers she said because you can hear in her words
that, even in her turmoil and anxiety, she was confident that God was there and
that something good would come out of the uncertainty she was going through.
I hope that all of us have that kind of gratitude, that kind of thankfulness,
that God has not only gifted us with life but that He is present with us in
every moment in that life. If we have that kind of gratitude, then whatever
comes our way, we’ll accept it with the confidence that we don’t face it alone
but with God Almighty at our side. For all that has been, thanks and for all
that will be, yes.
He pictured a slave who had worked all day in the field, plowing and tending
sheep. Then, at sundown, he went to the house and continued working. Even though
his body ached with weariness, he was required to prepare and serve his master’s
meal. After that, but only after that, was the slave allowed time to rest and
eat. And to make matters worse, the master didn’t feel or show one ounce of
appreciation for all that his slave had done.
This isn’t a pleasant story. In fact, it’s quite unpleasant. There are at least
two things about it that need to be said right up front. One is that it depicts
a social and economic system that was evil to the core. Slavery was based on
greed, arrogance and cruelty, all of the worst traits in human nature. It was a
way of life that should never have been.
The second thing should be obvious. The telling of this story doesn't imply that
our Lord approved of what it portrays. To the contrary, we can say with
certainty that He wholeheartedly disapproved of it. This was the very system
that Jesus had in mind when He said to his disciples: “Among the Gentiles, the
rulers lord it over their subjects. It cannot be that way with you. Whoever
among you wishes to rank first must become the servant of the rest.”
With that statement, our Lord stood the system of slavery on its head and
rejected everything it stood for. But then, why did He use this inhuman practice
in a parable and include it in his collection of beautiful stories? I think the
answer to that question must be this: For all of its ugliness, this was a real
slice of life. It was the way that many people had to live in that time and
place. They were slaves, obviously not by choice, but slaves nonetheless. And
those who found themselves in that circumstance had almost no control over their
own life. About the only realistic option a slave had was to face up to his fate
and make the best of it. To expect and demand more than that was to ask for
trouble, big trouble. At the very least, he would be setting himself up for
bitter disappointment.
Jesus saw this as a parable of life. He said to his disciples, “So it is with
you who hear Me.” In other words, what’s true for the slave is, to a certain
degree, true for all of us. We all have circumstances in our lives that we
didn't and would never have chosen for ourselves. They were simply given to us
or imposed on us. We would avoid them or change them, if we could. But in some
cases that’s not possible. And the only realistic option we have is to deal with
life as it is, not as we wish it was or we think it ought to be.
There’s a kind of healthy fatalism in this story. If that slave had hoped for a
40 hour work week, the only thing he would have gotten was disappointment. If he
had expected appreciation, the only thing he would have become was bitter. The
best thing he could do for himself was face the facts. He was destined to work
long, hard hours with little compensation and no appreciation. That was a cruel
fate. But it was his fate and the healthiest thing he could do was accept it.
Someone may say that he should have escaped. And I agree. He should have, if he
could have. But that was highly improbable. The entire Roman Empire was a slave
territory. There was no place to run. And runaway slaves, when caught, were not
treated kindly.
Someone else may say that the system should have been changed. And I agree. But
it takes a long time to change such a system. Of course, it eventually happened
but it took a long, long time. The change came much too late to help this first
century individual. His best hope, his most healthy response, was to accept the
role that life had assigned him and to do so with strength and with courage.
Isn’t it sometimes that way with you and me? Life does things to us that are
often unfair, occasionally cruel, and always demanding. Some of those things we
should avoid, if we can. Others of them we should change, if we could. But often
our problems can’t be solved in either of these ways. What then? The only
healthy answer at that point is to accept life as it really is and deal with
it.
Most of us have heard that prayer made famous by Alcoholics Anonymous. “God,
give me the courage to change the things I can, the patience to accept the
things I cannot and the wisdom to know the difference.” That prayer was written
by a Protestant theologian named Reinhold Neibuhr. But there’s a second verse to
it that’s not as well known. It goes, “Taking, as Christ did, this sinful world
as it is and not as I would have it, trusting that He will make all things
right, if I surrender to his will.”
That’s a very healthy prayer because it recognizes that life is often hard and
unfair and requires courage to get through it. And that courage comes from an
underlying faith and trust in God.
That’s essentially what St. Paul was saying when he wrote to his young friend
Timothy. In our second reading today he said, “God did not give us a spirit of
cowardice but rather of power and love and self-control.” Those are the
ingredients of a strong faith and a deep spirituality.
Never think that what life throws at you is too much for you to handle. Know
that God has sent you his Holy Spirit to help you deal with all the problems,
temptations, habits and crosses that seem so large and overwhelming. If that
faith enabled Paul to deal with all the things that troubled him, there’s no
reason to doubt that that same faith will enable us to deal with all that
trouble us.
In our Gospel today, Jesus told a story that talks about memory. It was about a
rich man and a poor man. The rich man lived in luxury. He wore fine clothes and
he ate fine food. The poor man lived in squalor and misery. He lay at the gate
of the rich man’s house, hoping for the scraps of food that were thrown away.
The man’s name was Lazarus. Interestingly, of all the stories that Jesus told,
this is the only one where a person was given a name. I don’t know why. Maybe
it’s because our Lord wanted to show the affinity He had for the poor. He
refused to leave this needy man a nameless nobody so He honored HIm with a
name.
At some point Lazarus died and was transported by angels to the bosom of
Abraham. The rich man also died and woke up in Hades, the place of the dead. The
first words spoken in this parable were by the rich man. He asked Abraham to
send Lazarus to relieve his misery. This request was denied. Instead, Abraham
told him to remember his abundant life. There was a time when he was in a
position to help Lazarus. But he never lifted a finger. Now all he could do was
remember his own hardhearted indifference.
The rich man was a classic example of too little too late. This could have been
a totally different story if he had used his memory in a more timely fashion.
Suppose, before beginning one of those sumptuous feasts, he had remembered the
man who was starving at his front gate. Suppose he had taken that man a plate of
food. Or better yet, suppose he had invited him in and set a place for him at
the table. A better use of his memory would have made a world of difference, not
only for Lazarus but especially for himself.
Memory is such an important capacity we all have. In fact, it’s so important
that, if you don’t know how to remember, you can’t be a Christian. A believer in
Jesus Christ is someone who is acutely aware of how he or she has been blessed
by God. Believers are those who remember well not only what God has done for
them in the past but, just as importantly, what God has done for them in the
present. Believers are those who remember every day what God has done and is
doing for them and they feel a deep sense of gratitude for it all.
I’ll never forget what someone once told me. It’s so simple that it’s profound.
“God does not call us to be good. God calls us to be holy.” You don’t need God
in order to be a good person. You do need God in order to be a holy person.
Holiness is not some kind of excessive piety. It’s a way of living marked by
wholeness, balance, gratitude and sharing, all rooted in the basic commitment to
follow Jesus Christ and to live as He lived, no matter where He leads and no
matter what it demands. The call to be a holy person is a call to take the risk
of walking with Christ Jesus.
Somebody once asked the question, “If all you had today was what you gave thanks
for yesterday, what would you have?” What did you thank God for yesterday? And
if you didn’t thank God for anything yesterday, what should you have thanked Him
for? Or to put it another way, what will you thank God for today, if you want it
tomorrow?
Sometimes when we’re told to count our blessings, we don’t think we have that
much for which to be grateful. Granted, many of us have our health and our
family and our home and maybe we can list a few other things. But did you ever
sit down and try to make a list of your blessings? Again, if you listed those
things that if you didn’t thank God for them today and you wouldn’t have them
tomorrow, I’ll bet your list would start getting pretty long.
This spirit of gratitude is the basis for what we call Stewardship and the heart
of Stewardship is a call to be a holy person because it’s a commitment that
influences the choices we make in life, the big ones and perhaps more
importantly the small ones we make every day.
Tonight we’re beginning a 3 evening Mission on which we’ll reflect more deeply
on this idea of Stewardship. Fr. Dan Mahan, a priest of the Archdiocese of
Indianapolis, is a noted speaker and author on this subject. We have joined St.
Joseph Parish in Amherst and St. Julie Billiart Parish in North Ridgeville in
bringing Fr. Mahan here. Tonight at 7 pm he will speak at St. Joseph’s Church
and will conclude his talk with Benediction. Tomorrow he’ll be here at our
church at 7 pm and give different talk and when it’s over everyone will be given
the opportunity to receive the Sacrament of Penance, if they wish. And on
Tuesday, he’ll give a final talk at St. Julie’s Parish and the evening will
conclude with a social. I hope you’ll be able to come to all or at least some of
his talks. If you need a ride, call the Parish Office and we’ll try to arrange
one for you.
The point is that we need to remember and we need to be grateful. Unless and
until we do that, we’ll never understand the message of Jesus and the power of
his teachings. Let’s not be like the rich man who suffered from spiritual
Alzheimer’s. He was so focused on himself that he had no sense of gratitude and,
therefore, no feelings for those who were on his very doorstep. Instead, let’s
develop a holiness based on our appreciation for the multiple ways that God has
touched our life.
Sunday, September 9, 2007
I’ve mentioned this statistic before and I repeat it again because it is
striking. Today, over half of the dioceses in the United States have fewer
priests than they have parishes, ie, they have more parishes than they have
priests to serve them. Our diocese is not there yet but the day is not far off
when we will be. We can wait and do nothing and worry about it when it happens
or we can be proactive and prepare for the day so that when it comes we’ll be
functioning in a way that adjusts to the realities that we’ll be facing.
I don’t know what that means and how we’ll do it but I do know that we have
begun the process of trying to figure it out. Our parish is in a cluster with
St. Adalbert’s and St. Mary’s in Berea. Each parish has five representatives,
the pastor and 4 parishioners, and we meet on the third Tuesday of each month.
We have been given a time line that we have to follow, meaning that by October
15 of 2008 we have to submit to Bishop Lennon our clustering plan, ie, what
specific changes or adjustments we will be making so that our three parishes can
be more closely connected while at the same time respecting the individuality
and history and identity of each parish. We were not told that we had to reduce
the number of parishes in our cluster or to close or merge our schools like some
other clusters were told where the declining population has made it unfeasible
to continue operating as they had in the past. We were told to look for ways
that we can operate more collaboratively and cooperatively in order to better
utilize the personnel and the resources we have available.
All of us involved in this endeavor know that it’s very important that we keep
the members of all three parishes informed of everything we’re talking about and
we get their input on issues before we make any decisions. And that we shall do.
As you can imagine the task that lies before us is challenging but it’s an
exciting one as we work to make our parishes more vibrant in the days that lie
ahead.
In all of this, communication is vital. I do ask you to regularly read the
Sunday bulletin since that’s our primary tool of keeping you informed of what’s
happening in our parish, not only in terms of Clustering but in the many other
activities that make up parish life.
Also, don’t forget we have a parish newsletter, The Insight, which allows us to
develop articles at a little more depth than we have room for in the bulletin.
It’s mailed quarterly to those who would like to receive it. If you’re
interested, please drop a note in the collection basket or give us a call at the
office during the week. Also, regarding education, check out the book rack in
the side vestibule. It has all kinds of pamphlets on a variety of subjects.
They're very inexpensive and make easy reading so do stop for a look some time.
And speaking of communication, be aware that our parish web site is being
redesigned and will soon be up and running. Almost anything you need to know
about the parish, its organizations & ministries, as well as our grade school is
found there. There are also a number of great links, everything from the Diocese
to the Vatican. Check it out at stmaryofthefalls.org.
Last October we spent each weekend of that month, reflecting on the concept of
Stewardship. Our focus was on the fact that God has blessed each one of us in so
many ways, many of which we probably overlook or take for granted. There is a
real need for us, in all honesty, to not just count our blessings but to
acknowledge our indebtedness and to show it in acts of generosity and service to
others in our life and in our church.
We’re going to continue our reflection on stewardship this fall by having a
parish mission that focuses on that theme. But we’re going to do it in a little
different way. There is a priest named Fr. Daniel Mahan from the archdiocese of
Indianapolis who is a nationally known figure and author on this subject and
he’s going to be here in Cleveland at the end of September. We have been invited
to join St. Julie Billiart Parish in North Ridgeville and St. Joseph Parish in
Amherst in sponsoring Fr. Mahan in a three day mission from Sept. 30 - Oct. 2.
That weekend Fr. Mahan will preach two of our Masses and will also preach at the
other two parishes. We will be invited to his opening talk at St. Joseph’s
Church that Sunday evening. On Monday, Fr. will spend the whole day at our
parish talking to our school kids and various parish groups and then will speak
to us in the evening here in church. On Tuesday, he will spend the day at St.
Joseph’s and we’ll all be invited to his closing session at St. Julie’s. So we
hope you’ll be able to attend all three nights, if possible.
During this past year, 375 of our seniors over the age of 75 were contacted in
order to assess the needs of our elderly. The response was extremely good and
the information gathered was helpful in developing a Ministry to Older Adults
under the leadership of Judy Stasenko. There will be a meeting on Sunday
afternoon, Sept. 23, to explain the coming Parish Nurse Program, a Flu Shot
Clinic, a Friendly Visitor Program and a Community Resource Center. They’ll
explain the Nursing Home and Homebound Ministries and there’ll be a chance to
learn about our Young at Heart group which offers a wonderful social connection
for those over 50. They will also explain educational programs and support
groups, especially centered on topics and concerns our older adults share. A
retreat is planned for those over 60 and a variety of other events and
activities. So do mark your calendars for that Sept. 23 meeting.
Also, keep at eye out for the Men’s and Women’s Journey Weekends coming up next
Lent. It’s been condensed a bit so that it begins on Saturday morning and
concludes at noon on Sunday. It’s a wonderful faith building experience and I
highly encourage it for all adults in our parish.
I also want to encourage all parents who have little children who are getting to
be near school age to consider sending them to our parish elementary school. We
have an excellent day school that provides a strong academic and faith based
education. If you’ve never been through our school, just give their office a
call and they’d be very happy to give you a tour and answer any questions you
may have.
We‘re currently are looking for more lectors and ushers to serve at our weekend
Masses. These are important liturgical ministries and are a great way to get
involved in a way that benefits the parish as a whole. For information, call the
parish office.
We’re going to be starting a council of the Knights of Columbus at our parish.
The K of C is a Catholic, family, fraternal and service organization that’s
dedicated to the religious, educational, recreational and social welfare of its
members and the Church. It’s open to all men 18 and up and their families. There
will be an information night on Tuesday, Oct. 23, to answer any questions and I
hope we will have a good turnout.
In the bulletin you’ll find our annual financial report. Look it over and if you
have any questions, do give me a call. But please know that even though we’re
meeting our expenses, it still means that everyone in this parish, including
myself, has an obligation to financially support this church. I said earlier
that God has blessed each one of us in so many ways that, if we actually made a
list of those blessings, we’d be amazed at how long that list would be. One of
the ways that we show our gratitude to God is by the way we financially support
those who do the work of God. So I ask you to assess how you’re supporting your
church. I’ve never stipulated what anyone should put in the collection basket.
That’s between you and the Lord. But I do remind you that what you give should
reflect your gratitude for what you’ve received. And also, don’t forget that
just as your expenses at home have gone up, so have ours here at the parish but
on a much grander scale. So please be generous, not because I ask you to be, but
because you need to be.
And finally, I’d like to conclude by making an announcement. I don’t know how to
say this other than just to say it. This is going to be my last year here at
SMOF. I came here in April of 1988 which means that I’m in my 20th year as your
pastor. 20 years. No one should be in charge of anything for 20 years. You need
a change. Our parish staff needs a change. It’s time to pass the torch to
someone else who can help bring fresh ideas and new leadership to the parish.
I’m 62 years old and I’ve been a priest for 35 years. That means I’ve been
pastor here for almost a third of my life and over half my priesthood. That’s
too long. You need a change. I’ve spoken to Bishop Lennon about this twice and
he was very understanding. I don’t know when I’ll be leaving. It depends on
where the Bishop feels I can be best used elsewhere. I’ll keep you informed as
things develop. But I do want you to know what’s going to happen and I hope you
will appreciate my reasoning and respect my decision.
But until I go, we’ve got work to do, together. We’ve got a future to build
through our clustering efforts. We’ve got children to educate through our day
school and PSR. And, best of all, we’ve got a God to worship through this great
sacrament of the Eucharist. And if we do all of this well, we will, as our
mission statement says, be building a parish we can truly call home.
Sunday, September 1, 2007
The stork said it was a deal. The frog showed him the fish and, after he had
eaten his fill, the stork agreed to take him for a ride. The only problem was
how was the frog going to hang on for the flight? The frog thought and thought
and finally he realized that he could grab hold of the stork’s leg with his
mouth while the stork flew above the swamp. And that he did. Up they flew, over
the swamp, the trees and the nearby hills. And it was beautiful indeed. But
after a while in the air, someone on the ground looked up and saw the strange
sight of a frog hanging onto a stork’s leg in flight and said, “I wonder which
one of those animals thought of that idea?” Since the frog had excellent
hearing, his heart swelled with pride, so happy he could fly and that humans
might think him so intelligent. So he shouted down to the man, “It was all my
idea!” And in that instant the frog fell to his death, a victim of both the
earth’s gravity and his own pride. And with that ending, Aesop gave the moral of
the story. He said, “Pride goes before a fall.”
Now Aesop wasn’t the first one to teach this profound truth. Centuries earlier,
the Old Testament books of Sirach, Proverbs and Ecclesiastes taught the same
thing. Pride is the first and trickiest of sins because it hides in the applause
of others when we do something good. Pride is the shadow that lurks on the
backside of success. And it’s no harmless sin. Pride is a real cancer of our
soul. It’s the ruin of our character and it’s the destroyer of healthy
relationships because it won’t accept criticism. It’s no wonder the early Church
Fathers called pride one of the deadly sins.
Jesus also had something to say on this subject. In today’s Gospel, He used the
normal habits of every day life to illustrate how important it is to develop an
honest humility to counteract the deadly effects of pride. While He was the
guest at the house of a religious leader, our Lord exposed the subtle efforts of
the other guests to impress others through careful positioning and posturing
around the table. He challenged people to forego these kinds of manipulative
techniques and instead to receive simply and humbly whatever hospitality life
offered.
Can you imagine life in this world without these kinds of games? What would
happen if we weren’t so concerned about what other people thought about us? What
would happen if we didn’t care if someone got ahead of us or someone did better
than us or someone was served before us or someone earned more than us? It’s as
if we’re afraid that others will gain some advantage over us. But Jesus offered
us a challenge. He said, in effect, “So what? If you gain the whole world out of
those concerns but you lose your own soul or you lose all real relationships
along the way, what have you won?” Jesus wants us to set a new pattern in motion
in our world, a pattern of honesty and humility, where competitors can be
converted into companions, where people shed their masks and accept the
wonderful truth that we’re all basically on the same level with each other.
In such a world there’d be no need for this kind of one-upmanship because we’d
realize the world isn’t a castle to be taken but a table to be shared. There’d
be no need for power grabs because we’d realize that power is only valuable in
service to help elevate the powerless, or as Jesus called them, the poor, the
crippled, the maimed and the blind.
All of this may seem too unrealistic or too much reaction to table manners in
the days of Jesus. But the truth is, it’s in the little things were character is
formed and where character is revealed. I think most job interviews should take
place during a round of golf or over a meal at a fast food restaurant or in some
similar situation because integrity and character and hospitality and patience
are revealed in little things when you think no one is looking. The way a person
treats the most invisible members of society reveals what way that person really
thinks about people as a whole. Little things do matter. Jesus wasn’t terribly
concerned with table manners and etiquette for their own sake. Instead He was
aiming deeper, to the very core of our souls. He was trying to help us cut out
the tumor of pride that can eat our soul alive.
And the table really is the best place to start. Do you remember the legend of
King Arthur? His knights sat at a round table that symbolized a society without
a pecking order, where everyone gathered around the table with equality. The
family kitchen table in our home should be a similar place. It should be where
the family prays together, where they enjoy the bounty of food and drink, where
memories are preserved, where laughter is shared and where everyone matters,
just because they’re family. The table isn’t a place of competition or
accomplishment, only a place of fellowship and welcome.
Is it any wonder in our Catholic faith that the table is also the central place
of gathering and communion with God and with each other? The altar, the table of
the Lord, is the holy place where the vision of Jesus begins to take shape. At
God’s table, there is no posturing. All of us here are equal. We’re all in need
of forgiveness, of grace, and of the things that only God can offer. At God’s
table there is no competition or pushing or shoving because there is enough for
everyone. At God’s table the only way to come is with humility, with
outstretched hands and open mouths and hearts. And if that’s true here, at this
table, maybe, just maybe, it’s true everywhere else, too.
Sunday, August 19, 2007
Were you ever in a situation where you felt you should act in
a particular way because it was the right thing to do but you felt embarrassed
to do so? You knew you should refrain from contributing to gossip or you
should speak up and say something positive in someone’s defense or you should
speak the truth when lies were being told. You wanted to but you were too
embarrassed or ashamed and later you wondered why you felt that way? As a
Christian, you knew what you should have done but you lacked the courage to do
it.
Today’s Scriptures direct themselves at this problem and they recognize the
difficulty. The first reading was from the prophet Jeremiah. He was an
ordinary man who had no intention of getting himself in any trouble or of
causing any flack. But God said to him, “Speak out against the current abuses
going on.” Jeremiah said, “Why me?” But he went and did what God told him to
do. He knew that God had called him and he was faithful and loyal to the
Lord. And what was the result? He got tossed into the mucky mire of a
cistern.
Then there’s the Gospel which was certainly a strange reading. It was about
dividing people and it was about fidelity to God. Jesus said, in effect, “If
you’re loyal to Me, you’ll be opposed for it as much as Jeremiah was, as much
as the prophets were, as much as I am.” And, as He pointed out, the
opposition can take many shapes and forms and may come from those who are
friends or even family.
One of the human problems we all have a hard time outgrowing is the problem we
first experience as teenagers -- peer pressure, ie, the need to be accepted by
our equals and the desire to win their approval.
Those of us who have been through that know that at times this peer pressure
may have forced us to adopt the values of our friends because we didn’t want
to seem different. At times it may have caused us to do things we really
didn’t believe in but we did it to save face and to make ourself acceptable in
their eyes. Ideally, we grow beyond this preoccupation. As we mature we grow
to learn to think for ourself, to stand independent, to realize that we don’t
have to think, act, believe or behave like everybody else. We realize that
being accepted by everyone is not the most important thing in life.
This level of psychological and emotional maturity takes on a spiritual
maturity when we’re willing to face the objection of others because of our
loyalty to God. Spiritual maturity is loyalty to divine values, a loyalty
that transcends the concern to be approved or accepted by others. It’s the
ability to stand on our own two feet and say, “I’m going to do this because
it’s the right thing to do, because it’s what God wants me to do, and I don’t
care if anyone agrees with me or not.”
This kind of spiritual maturity comes about only when we’ve developed a
loyalty to a person -- not to a cause or an institution or a church or a
philosophy or a legal code but to a person. Someone once said that
Christianity is not a lesson to be learned but a person to be loved and a life
to be lived. And that person is Jesus Christ. Only when we’re loyal to the
person of Jesus of Nazareth will his values become our values and will we be
able to face the opposition that will inevitably come our way.
How does this take place? How do we develop this kind of dedication to God?
The single most moving factor in fostering and nurturing our loyalty to Him is
an appreciation of his loyalty to us. If there’s anything we should be
getting out of this Mass by hearing God’s Word and receiving God’s bread, it
should be that God Himself is not only very accepting of us and very forgiving
of us but God is firmly and totally on our side.
God is devoted to you, committed to you and in love with you. If our Sunday
worship, if our reception of the sacraments and if our personal prayers aren’t
building our confidence and our faith in this fact, then something is wrong.
We may not be putting ourself into these spiritual exercises because we’re not
listening or concentrating or open to discover what God is really saying and
what God is really expecting.
The fact is that God’s loyalty to us is made manifest in Jesus Christ and He
carried a cross to show us how true this is. And now your responsibility, as
is mine, is to develop a loyalty to Him that takes precedence over anything
else; a loyalty that doesn't get embarrassed or ashamed or dissuaded when
others don’t accept our values or agree with our ways.
We are Catholic and we are Christian and we have a way of living, of acting,
reacting and interacting with others. And if some people don’t like it,
that’s their problem. May all of us stand true for what we believe and may we
be as loyal to God as God is loyal to us.
Fr. Robert J. Cole Pastor
Sunday, August 5, 2007
We often make jokes about people who talk to themselves. But
the truth is that this is something that we all do and we do very few things
that are more important. Almost every deliberate move we make can be traced
back to some conversation we had with ourself sometime earlier.
In today’s Gospel, Jesus told a story about a man who held a conference with
himself, somewhere deep within his own heart. First, he asked himself a
question: “What shall I do? I don’t have space to store my harvest.” That was
the topic of his conversation - how to handle the problem of a bumper crop and
no place to put it. Then he answered his own question: “I’ll tear down my
barns and build larger ones.” Then he made an appraisal of his
circumstances: “You have so many good things stored up for many years.” And
finally, on the basis of that appraisal, he gave himself a bit of advice:
“Rest, eat, drink and be merry.”
Something like that is going on inside everyone of us, almost continually.
The problems that we’re facing may be dramatically different than the rich man
in the story, but our approach to solving them is often essentially the same.
In important matters we first talk it over within ourself. If we’re wise,
we’ll ask the advice of others whom we trust. But wise or unwise, we always
seek our own counsel. Every great decision has first been talked through in
the secret chambers of our own heart.
That’s why this is such an important issue. What we’re going to do tomorrow,
how we’ll handle issues and pressures and temptations and tragedies and
anything else depends, to a large measure, on what we’re saying to ourself
right now.
The man in our Lord’s story has forever been labeled a fool. He was given
that title by the Son of God, not because he talked to himself, but because of
the way he did it. His inward conversation was filled with foolishness.
For example, it’s obvious that he thought of life only in terms of himself.
Repeatedly he used the first person pronouns: I, me and mine. Never once did
he mention a neighbor or a friend or even a family member. Worst of all, he
made no reference to and, apparently, had no thought of God. Judging from the
content of his inward conversation, you might suppose that he was the only
person in the world.
And it’s certainly clear that he considered himself to be a self-made man.
Everything that he had was exclusively from his own doing and every
achievement was due to his personal genius and diligent effort. No one else
had contributed anything and no one else needed anything. He was concerned
about no problems but his own. He was aware of no one’s presence but his
own. How foolish can anyone get?
My friends, we need to talk to ourself about ourself, but we need to do it
honestly and realistically. There are a lot of people in this world beside
you and me. And if we’re wise, we’ll remind ourself of that fact on a regular
basis. It would be a good thing if we would take some time this week to talk
to ourself about the people who have made a positive contribution in our life
to bring us to where we are today. If we do that, we may find ourself writing
some letters or speaking some words of appreciation. At the very least, we’ll
find ourself being grateful. And what a healthy thing it is for us to do
that.
It would also be good if we would talk with ourself about the needs of some
other people. If we do, we may find ourself reaching out to help. At the
very least we’ll find ourself caring and, perhaps, realizing that our own
needs are not always as urgent nor as serious as we had thought.
Go back to the conversation which the rich fool had with himself. “What shall
I do? I have no place to store my harvest?” Suppose he had answered; “I
know. I’ll share my abundance with the workers who helped to produce it.
Then whatever is left over, I’ll distribute some of it to the poor.”
If he had said those things, he would be remembered for his wisdom instead of
his stupidity. He could have changed his entire life by changing the way he
talked to himself. And you and I can do the same thing by reminding ourself
of the wants and needs, the hurts and the heartaches of people around us.
And the third thing that’s evident from his inner conversation is that he
thought of success and happiness only in terms of material things. He looked
at all of his wealth and told himself to do four things: to relax, to eat
heartily, to drink well and to enjoy life. That was his shopping list. Those
were the things that he intended to buy with his money. But that was so
foolish. He could go to the store, reach in his pocket and buy only two of
those things -- something to eat and something to drink. The other two were
not and cannot be bought. Money can’t buy relaxation and money cannot buy
happiness.
We need to be talking to ourself about the limitations of money. It can do a
lot of things. It can open a lot of doors. It can provide a lot of
opportunities. But there are some things that it can’t do, among which are
the most important things in life. Money can’t buy a clear conscience or
genuine affection or inward courage or spiritual strength. Those things are
just not for sale -- never have been and never will be.
The man in Jesus’ story thought of success primarily, if not exclusively, in
terms of money and the things that money can buy. Our modern society does the
same thing. He was dead wrong and so are we if we think like he did.
Do you know what a successful person is? People are successful if they
appreciate beauty, both in their fellow human beings and in the world.
They’re successful if they can recognize the good in others, even when it’s
hard to see. They’re successful if they to leave the world a little bit
better than the way they found it and if they know that even one person has
had it a little easier because of them. They’re successful if they feel
grateful to God for all that God has given them and if they’ve demonstrated
that gratitude by the generosity they show to others.
That’s what true success really means. And down deep inside, I think we all
know that but we need to hear it over and over again. We need to talk about
it in the deepest part of our heart because it’s there that we encounter God
and it’s there that we reveal to Him, as well as to ourself, what we really
believe.
Fr. Robert J. Cole Pastor
Sunday, July 22, 2007
I read recently that Hallmark Cards is celebrating its
sixtieth year of using the phrase that someone who sends one of their cards
“cares enough to send the very best.” Apparently those who study advertising
say that that slogan is one of the best recognized advertising lines in
America.
And Hallmark isn’t alone in their marketing of caring. About 25 years ago
their competitor, American Greetings, came up with the idea of Care Bears.
Those colorful little bears quickly evolved from cartoons to collectible
stuffed animals to an animated movie in no time at all. American Greetings
also hopes you will equate their product with caring. Besides, what says “I
care” more than a huggable lovable Care Bear?
The point is this, we all want to be known as caring people. In fact, few
virtues are more noble. Whether the care is expressed in polite thank you
notes or a compassionate presence during a time of someone’s suffering or
remembering birthdays with unique gifts, truly caring people are appreciated
in today’s impersonal world. No one wants the reputation of being a careless
or an uncaring individual. Few things sting as much as when someone says,
“You just don’t care, do you? In fact, all you care about is yourself.” I
wouldn’t want someone to say that to me and I don’t think parents like to hear
that from their kids and I don’t think anyone at all likes to hear it from a
friend.
As you might imagine, our Lord was the incarnation of caring and compassion.
So all of us who call ourselves Christian, a name which means “Little
Christ”, should aspire to be like Christ and to treat others like He did. The
examples of Christ’s care are plentiful. He looked out on the multitudes
gathered in front of Him and He had compassion on them. He wept over
Jerusalem, even though He would suffer greatly at the hands of those who lived
there. He continually saw the least and the lost and the last within a crowd,
those who were invisible to others, and He was moved to heal and bless them.
He made room on his lap for little kids and embraced them with loving arms.
And finally, on the cross, where He died for all of humanity, He offered words
of compassion for the thief hanging beside Him and spoke words of forgiveness
to those who drove the nails and who laughed while He died. No one in human
history cared like Jesus cared.
And yet, here in today’s Gospel, we hear Martha accuse Him of the
unthinkable. In those days, people didn’t have last names. But if Martha
would have had a last name I think it would have been Stewart because she was
obsessed with care about every detail as she hosted Jesus and his disciples
for a meal in the home she shared with her sister, Mary. But while Martha was
sweating the details as well as the heat in the kitchen, Mary was sitting at
the feet of Jesus listening to his teaching. Finally Martha had had enough
and she snapped at Jesus with the ultimate insult, “Lord, don’t you care that
my sister has left me by myself to do the serving? Tell her to help me.”
That must have stung. “Lord, don’t You care?” How could she say that,
especially to Jesus, someone who was the very embodiment of care? She was
accusing Him of being an uncaring individual.
Let me put in an aside here for all those of you who are responsible for the
care of someone else. If Jesus himself could be accused from time to time by
those closest to Him of being uncaring, those of you who are parents and
teachers and best friends shouldn't be surprised to hear the same accusation
from time to time coming out of the mouths of those whom you care about. One
of the most difficult things to do when you’re a caregiver is to continue to
extend loving and forgiving care to the very ones who say to you, “You don’t
care about me!” If you care for a rebellious child or an aging parent or a
hurting friend, you know the pain I’m talking about. It hurts to hear those
words because they’re just not true. And you know they’re not true. But just
like our Lord, sometimes we’re going to be accused of things that aren’t
accurate or are misperceived. We, too, will have to suffer, primarily because
the words are undeserved.
But back to the story. Actually, Martha wasn’t the first one to say to our
Lord, “Don’t You care?” Earlier in the Gospel, when the Apostles were out
with Jesus in a boat during a bad storm, He was asleep while they were rowing
for their lives. In their fear, they cried out the same thing. They shouted,
“Lord, don’t you care that we’re going to drown?” Well, of course, He cared.
He calmed the storm around them and then set about calming the storm within
them. Like the anxious and angry Martha, the fearful disciples let their
emotions blur their insight and erase their memory. When we’re afraid or when
we’re hurting or when life seems unfair, we, too, are often tempted to throw
that same accusation against God. When something terrible happens in our
life, we can find ourself saying, “Lord, don’t You care?” It’s only natural
to feel that way. And God doesn’t get mad at us, any more than Jesus got
angry with those who accused Him of not caring. When we’re hurt, when we
don’t understand, when we’re afraid, we say things and we pray things to God
that we might not say in a calmer time.
But even a hurtful prayer is still a prayer. And that’s the main thing to
God. He doesn't get his feelings hurt and go off in a corner of heaven to
sulk when we honestly tell Him how we feel. Better a poorly worded prayer in
a difficult time than no prayer at all. Eventually all of us will feel like
Martha. And whether we say it aloud or not, sometimes we may question whether
God really knows our situation or cares enough about our problems. In a safer
time we know better, sure. But in an unsafe time, when the world is crashing
down around us, we join with Martha and the Apostles and ask, “Lord, don’t You
care?”
And the answer, the tender and persistent answer, from our Lord is, “Yes, I do
care. More than you can imagine. More than you will ever know or
understand.” His care may not result in the storm being stilled or the pain
being lessened or the cancer being cured; at least not on our time table. But
trust God on this one, my friends. He does care. How do we know that?
Because He did so much more than send a greeting card into our distress. God
sent us his own Son into our life. He truly cares, enough to send the very
best.
Fr. Robert J. Cole Pastor
Sunday, July 15, 2007
The parable of the good Samaritan is as old as the New
Testament and as modern as the morning paper. It’s a story about violent
crime. A man traveling from Jerusalem to Jericho was beaten and robbed and
left beside the road half dead. It’s a story about people’s reluctance to get
involved. Two men came by, saw the victim lying there, but made no effort to
help him. But it’s also a story about that rare and wonderful individual who
sees a need and does whatever is necessary to meet it. A Samaritan came upon
the wounded man and ”was moved with pity at the sight.”
His sympathy was immediately translated into practical service. He
administered roadside first aid. Then he carried the man to an inn and cared
for him through the night. The next morning, before leaving, he made
arrangements for his continued care, until the man could travel again.
That story is our Lord's interpretation of an ancient Jewish law found in the
book of Leviticus. It says, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
We’ve all heard that commandment. We know it’s in the Bible and we know that
it meant a lot to Jesus. And I’m sure we all agree that it’s a beautiful
concept.
But often we don’t take it seriously. Suppose we did. Suppose we decided to
try to live by it, truly to love our neighbor as ourself. What would that mean
in your life and in mine? Where and how would we start?
For one thing, we’d have to define the word “neighbor”. Who is it that we’re
going to try to love as we love ourself? Jesus told this story in response to
that very question. A man who knew the law, believed in it and apparently
wanted to live by it, asked Him, “Who is my neighbor?”
That was a widely discussed and sharply debated question in those days. The
Jews didn’t consider non Jews as neighbors. The Gentiles were strangers and
aliens who didn’t belong to God’s Chosen people. They were foreigners. The
Greeks were regarded as barbarians and the Romans were hated for being the
occupying power. The world was deeply divided by racial, religious, social
and cultural boundaries. But Jesus would have no part in that. With one
simple story, He crossed over all boundaries and erased all of the lines that
separated people from people. “There was a man going down from Jerusalem to
Jericho.” Who was that man? What was his race? His religion? His social
standing? His culture?
It’s commonly assumed that the man was a Jew since his journey began in
Jerusalem. That may be a reasonable assumption. But nonetheless, it’s an
assumption. The fact is that Jesus didn't identify the man at all, except by
gender. And the only reason He did that was to make the story believable. No
woman would have traveled that dangerous road alone. In the eyes of Jesus,
the lone traveler was simply “a man”, and probably not a very smart man to be
walking that road by himself. As to race, he could have been a Jew or a
Gentile. As to religion, he could have been a faithful worshipper of God or
he could have been an idolater or an atheist. As to character, he could have
been virtuous or despicable.
Our Lord left all such questions unanswered because, in his mind, none of them
was a factor. The only thing that mattered to Him was the fact that a human
being lay wounded beside the road and needed help. Two men came by and saw
him there but made no attempt whatever to render aid.
Looking back across the centuries, the conduct o