FR. ROBERT J. COLE PASTOR - 2007

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Christmas Day  2007

 

I know that you’ve all heard of a white Christmas and that you know about a Christmas that takes place on a silent night. But have you ever heard of a compromised Christmas? A compromised Christmas is not as attractive or poetic as a silent or a white one, but I want you to know that it’s even more beautiful and certainly more valuable. 


 
It is highly doubtful that the first Christmas was white. It simply doesn’t snow in Bethlehem, or at least not to the degree of accumulation we see on most Christmas cards. And as for being silent, where do you think the stable was in which Christ was born? It was not located out in some idyllic pasture. It was connected to the inn where travelers could put up their animals. And the inns were located in the most crowded and hectic parts of the city. Through the thin walls of that stable where Mary and Joseph stayed, they could hear the pushing, shouting and maybe the fighting of some of the other visitors who were looking for a place to stay. So much for a silent night!
 
So the first Christmas wasn’t white nor silent. What it was, was compromised.  That we know for sure. That first Christmas was not the Christmas that Mary or Joseph would have chosen. They wanted a Christmas that was more familiar, more safe, more clean. From the time that they began to adjust to the unexpected news of Mary's pregnancy (and it must have been quite an adjustment), Mary and Joseph were planning to give birth to their child in their own home surrounded by family and friends. They had no desire or intention to make a long and dangerous journey across the country into a city filled with strangers and have their child born in a crowded barn filled with smelly animals. Mary and Joseph would have chosen none of those things.
 
But that’s the way Christmas happened. And it would have been a major disaster had not Mary and Joseph been willing to compromise, to let go of what they wanted and instead receive the good things that they were given. And there were good things: the baby was healthy, the mother was safe, they had found a place of shelter and even some clean hay, and there were kindly strangers coming to give support and to offer gifts. All good things, but good things that Mary and Joseph would never have been able to enjoy, if they had been unwilling to compromise, if they had insisted on focusing on the things that did not happen rather than the things that did.
 
The Christmas story is a story of compromise and its value is not to simply give us information about what happened 2000 years ago but rather to point to a way we’re called to live today. This story tells us that the way to happiness is the art of compromise. This is a difficult lesson for us as Americans because we live in a consumer culture in which we expect to have what we want and to have it now. Compromise is seen as a failure, not as an opportunity. When we need to compromise, we feel that we’re cheated because we can’t have what we want. And feeling cheated robs us of the happiness of living.

 
By now most people have opened their Christmas gifts.  I’m sure a lot of children’s expectations were met.  But I’m just as sure that a lot of them didn’t receive what they had asked for or hoped for.  And that applies to teens and adults as well.  If that happened to you, were you disappointed or did you compromise?  Did you see the goodness in the gift that was given or did you feel sad because of the gift you didn’t get? 

 
There are people here today who want their spouse to be different.  They want them to be more patient, more understanding, more organized, more flexible. But you’ve lived with that person for a while and you know little is going to change. Are you able to compromise, to see the good that’s in your husband or wife, a good that could bring you joy and happiness, or will you choose to live in the resentment that the person you married is not the person you want him or her to be?
 
There many things that none of us want to deal with at Christmas. We don’t want to struggle with poor health, shaky finances, or a loss which comes from divorce or death. But some of you here have those realities right in the center of your lives right now. Can you compromise? Can you choose to find the good that’s still in your life, the people who love you, the opportunities that are still yours, or will you insist that there can be no joy until things change, until things return to the way they once were or you think they should be?
 
The way to happiness is the art of compromise. For people of faith that art takes on an ever deeper dimension because we believe that God is present with us. We believe that when one gift is taken away, God gives another. It may not be the gift we want, a gift that we understand  or a gift that we would choose, but it’s a real gift nonetheless. In faith, we believe that the gift which is given has enough opportunity and enough strength to bring us happiness. So if you look at your life this Christmas and you find issues you don’t want to have, don’t be afraid to compromise. Don’t insist on focusing on the things you lack. Try to find the goodness in the things you possess. In faith, know that that can make all the difference in the world.
 
The first Christmas was neither white nor silent. It was a compromise that worked because Mary and Joseph let go of the kind of birth that they wanted and accepted the child that they were given. Accepting that child was enough, more than enough. What they received was not only a son but the Savior of the World. The compromise which Mary and Joseph were willing to make brought them joy, the joy of the son who was given, a joy greater than anything they could have ever imagined. If we’re willing to compromise, we can find that joy, too.
 
And so I join with Fr. George, with Sr. Jane and with Deacons Rich Mueller, Tom Daw and Bob Martin in wishing you and all of your loved ones a most blessed and happy Christmas.  May the beauty of this holy day fill your hearts and your homes, not only today, but each day of the new year that lies ahead. 

 

 

Sunday, December 16th 2007

 

As you all know, and as the children are most keenly aware, Christmas is only 9 days from today.  And all of us have been doing a lot to prepare for it.  Most of us have experienced Christmas many times in our life but I wonder if we've reflected much on the different kinds of Christmas we can celebrate.  I read something this week that pointed out that, as Americans, we look at Christmas in one of two ways, a cultural phenomenon or as a religious belief.  And they're not the same  and it's important that we keep the similarities and the differences between these two Christmases clear.  And I'd like to reflect with you on this for a few minutes today. 

 
The Cultural Christmas has a tremendous impact on all of our lives, certainly an economic one. Without increased Christmas sales most retailers would not be able to survive. Yet the influence of cultural Christmas is not limited to money, for it also conveys to our society a set of spiritual beliefs. People who do not believe in Jesus or even in God are nevertheless influenced by cultural Christmas. At this time of year they feel an increased importance of family; an invitation to be more generous, to be more giving and forgiving, and to care for one another. Whenever we listen to a cultural Christmas song or watch a T.V. special, it's likely that these spiritual values will be present, inviting us to care for one another, to work for peace, and to make the world a better place. Many of the children here today have seen the movie The Polar Express.  In it they heard the advice : “Never forget the magic, the mystery of Christmas.” The movie encourages all of us to be the best people, the most loving people we can be. Now, are these spiritual beliefs of cultural Christmas valuable? Absolutely. Should we as believers express them? Certainly.

 
But here is where the difference between cultural and religious Christmas comes into focus. As believers we profess more about Christmas than what our culture would propose. We believe that Christmas is more than just us loving one another. It is God loving us. We believe that the most important thing about Christmas is not about what we do or should do, but about what God has done and continues to do. In other words, we believe in the Incarnation, that truth of our faith that tells us that God took on Himself a human nature, that God became one of us; that God became Savior for the world. That fact of what God did and continues to do in our lives is at the heart of religious Christmas. It certainly is reflected in all the Scriptures. Today's scriptures would be a good example. Isaiah says God is coming to save us. The letter of James says the Lord is near. And in Matthew's gospel we see John the Baptist presented as the one who is preparing the way of the Lord.  The Scriptures see the action of God as primary, and that action is certainly at the heart of religious Christmas.

 
To be honest, the relationship between cultural Christmas and religious Christmas is not simple; it is complex. The two are not opposed to one another because both are promoting peace, forgiveness, and love among people. And yet religious Christmas believes more because it believes in the centrality of God's action, which cultural Christmas does not include.

 
Here is where the real advantage of being a person of faith becomes clear. When we approach Christmas from a religious perspective, there's more potential for joy and love. If all Christmas is about is us loving one another, forgiving one another, working for peace in our world, then, as beautiful as those motivations are, there is not really much hope.   If the mystery of Christmas depends upon us and our ability to produce it, the future is not very bright. We are really not that good at loving or at forgiving.  Look at the world in which we live.  How many places are characterized by hatred, by war, by violence? Look how we struggle even to forgive the people who are close to us; how we move along trying to make our lives work among the brokenness of our relationships and the stresses within our own family. As much as we desire love, and forgiveness, and peace, if accomplishing those things rest in our hands only, there is not much reason for optimism. 

 
But when we adopt the religious aspect of Christmas, everything changes.  If God has become one of us, if the Word has become flesh and dwells among us, if God continues to work in our midst to bring about love and reconciliation and peace, then the whole burden is not simply upon us. Then we trust that God is active and where God is active what is impossible becomes possible. When God is active in our world, then despite all of our shortcomings, there is reason for hope.

 
So I encourage you to embrace the values of cultural Christmas.   Watch the holiday specials on TV.  Go out and see The Polar Express. Look forward to chestnuts roasting on an open fire. Be thankful for your Christmas cards that have Frosty the Snowman on them. They all point to the magic, to the warmth, to the love of this season. 

 
But, if you really want magic and warmth and love, then be thankful that you're a believer. Be thankful that you believe in God who is active in our world and in your life.  If God became flesh, if God is Emmanuel, then the promises of Christmas are much more likely to happen. If God continues to act in our world and in our life, then despite all of our shortcomings we can be confident. Then we can not only sing about a Christmas of magic, of warmth, and of love, but with God's help we can find it and live it.

 

 

Sunday, December 9th 2007

 

The Scriptures sometimes use some very picturesque poetry to say some very profound things.  Thinking of the first reading we just heard,  try to imagine a world in which the wolf and the lamb will share the same stall. The leopard and the baby goat will sleep together.  A little child will put a leash on a lion and a calf and will lead them around.  The lion will eat straw like the oxen.  And a child will reach down into a cobra’s den and not be harmed.  According to Isaiah the prophet, that’s what the world will be like one day.  At some future time the earth will be as full of  harmony and tranquility as the oceans are full of  water. Then no creature will harm any other creature on all of God’s earth.

 
But today the world isn’t like that.  Today we seem bent on destruction.  I was reading a magazine recently that said that since the beginning of recorded history, the entire world has been at peace less than eight percent of the time!  There was some kind of research that  discovered that of the roughly 3,500 years of recorded history, only 286 years saw peace.  In that time, more than 8,000 peace treaties were made and then broken.

 
How and when will the picture that Isaiah painted become a reality?  Well, remember, the Bible doesn’t say that Isaiah’s vision will come through the achievements of people.  The fact is that it will become a reality when Jesus returns in power and glory at the end of time.  But until that day comes, there will be wars and rumors of wars.  Nations will rise up against nations.  People will use violence to bring about peace and hatred and greed will reside deep within the hearts of many.

 
It’s very sad to realize that until Jesus returns, there will always be the Osama Bin Laden and Saddam Hussein types around, fomenting hatred through acts of horrific evil.   Yes, it helps to have a United Nations, a nuclear non-proliferation treaty, and even a strong military.   But there will be no golden age of peace until Christ returns.   No matter how many wars we fight and no matter how many wars we win, real peace, lasting peace, will only come when the Prince of Peace comes.

 
In the meantime what are we supposed to do?  Sit around and wait for Jesus to come back? Just the opposite.  We’re not supposed to sit and wait.  We have work to do.  We have to reconcile the wolf and the lamb that live inside each and every one of us.  There’s a whole menagerie of animals who live within all of us.

 
There is a tiger within you and me that wants to snarl at people on the other side of the political or ideological fence.  There is a wolf within us that re-opens old wounds and past failures even within our own families, just to make sure that even those nearest to us know we haven’t forgotten what they’ve done to hurt us.  Maybe forgiven, but not forgotten.  There is a cobra within us that lies in wait for people who are different from us, so we can catch them fulfilling our prejudices about them.  There is a bear within us that gives other people only one chance to disappoint us; and if they do, we can justify our behavior toward them.  Each of us could offer similar examples.  There’s an ugly  side to every member of the human race, a dark side that keeps this world from blossoming into the kind of world that God has in mind.

 
And maybe that sounds rather bleak and unfair.  Over the centuries the human race has done many genuinely good and at times heroic things.   Look at all the wonderful accomplishments of human beings.  In the lifetime of many of us here, we rebuilt Europe with the Marshall Plan after the Second World War.  We have a United Nations, a Church throughout the world, the Red Cross, Catholic Charities and countless other organizations and groups that help the needy.  Over the years we have witnessed and performed great acts of generosity and sacrifice.  And rightly so.  We’re more than beasts.  But we’re not angels.  Both the wolf and the lamb are within us.  What a bundle of contrasts we are!  What are we supposed to do with ourselves, with this bundle of contradictions, with this combination of wolf and lamb?

 
Only through surrendering oneself to Jesus Christ can we be fundamentally changed.  When we repent of the sinfulness in our life and claim Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord, his Holy Spirit begins to restrain the beast within us and to unleash the angel.

 
And so the question is, have you made that discovery yet?  that Jesus Christ wants to tame the evil within you and set free the Spirit of God that lies there as well.  If you haven’t done that yet, why not ?  And if you haven’t done that yet, why not today?  Why not now?  Once we do that, the beast is restrained and the angel is unleashed. Then we become nothing less than Apostles, working in the world, preparing for that great day when Jesus will return in all his glory and the entire earth will be transformed into the kind of world that God created it to be.

 
Some years ago a new Christmas custom began in the New England area.  Some Christian families there decided to limit their outdoor decorations to a single white candle in each window.  That candle declared that Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life.  There’s nothing wrong with festively decorating one’s house at this time of year but a lone candle in every window is beautiful in its simplicity.  It declares that in this home and in these hearts, Jesus Christ comes first.

 
Anytime a person claims Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord, he or she resembles that single candle, a lookout for the Kingdom of God, a clear sign to the world that one day Jesus will return in glory and the wolf and the lamb will lie down together.  And on that day, as Scripture says. “Every knee shall bend and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.”

Sunday, December 2, 2007

 

I think it was sometime in September that I saw Christmas lights go on sale at Drug Mart.  In fact, I received my first Christmas card in the beginning of November.  It seems that every year we begin earlier and earlier getting ready for December 25.  Fortunately the Church doesn't compete in this marathon of commercial marketing.  Instead of setting aside a few months, the Church sets aside a few weeks  to prepare for the celebration of the birth of Christ.  This season which we begin today is called Advent and it’s a time for us to examine the quality of how we’re living rather than the quantity of what we’re buying.  And to do this, the Church carefully selects appropriate passages from the Scriptures for each of the Sundays of the next 4 weeks.  Rather than try to bedazzle us with gaudy displays and glittering lights, we’re presented with selections from the treasury of sacred readings that show us how we can best prepare ourselves for the coming of the Son of God.

 
On this First Sunday of Advent, we heard the words of the Old Testament prophet Isaiah, then Psalm 122, then the apostle Paul and finally Jesus Himself.  These four sources get right to the core, to the center of what Advent is really all about.

 
We began by hearing about Isaiah’s dream, a hope, an expectation he had for God’s people.  In a time of military threats and rumors of war, Isaiah dared to predict a different kind of invasion: not an invasion of destruction and death but an invasion of instruction and life.  Isaiah’s God is the God of peace not war, the God who challenges the people of every age to “beat their swords into ploughshares.”  Even as our country is engaged in a war in Iraq and Afghanistan today, we yearn, we long for a day when such violence is not needed.  Advent should be a time for us to recommit ourself to work and pray for a world that reflects and respects the presence of the One whose coming was heralded by angels who proclaimed, “Glory to God in the highest and on earth peace.”  Only if there is peace in our world, peace in our country, peace in our parish, peace in our home and peace in our heart, will the impact of Christmas be fully felt.

 
The psalm response we sang underlined that same theme.  With all the pressures of Christmas preparation, peace and joy become elusive in the hustle and bustle of shopping, cooking, card-writing, cleaning and partying.  Psalm 122 focuses our attention on the joy and peace that come from knowing where we’re going.  The psalm said, “Let us go rejoicing to the house of the Lord.”  Advent is the time for us to make our home a holy “house of the Lord” where we live, not as strangers, but as a family, united in and by Jesus Christ.  Advent reminds us that Christ came not to pass through our homes and our hearts but to dwell in them, abide in them and stay in them.  Jesus is still with us.

 
Paul wrote in his letter to the Romans that we should “awake from sleep” and get dressed for the new day that is dawning.  Advent is the time to ask ourself why, if we’re willing to clean out our clothes closet at home for the new things we’ll get this Christmas, why aren’t we willing to clean out our heart closet of all the soiled, ill-fitting and worn out habits that are no longer fit for a follower of Christ to wear?

 
And finally, Jesus went one step farther than Paul did.  Paul said, “Awake from sleep.”  Jesus said more than “Wake up”.  He said, “Stay awake.”  Advent challenges us to stay awake, stay aware, stay alert for the coming of the Lord.  The real adventure of Advent is to recognize the ingenious disguises that our Lord uses when He comes to us.  He readily admits these disguises when He tells us that He comes to us in the hungry and the thirsty, the stranger and the naked, the ill and the imprisoned, the least and the last.  To prepare for Christmas is to work to see through his disguises and that can be difficult, because in some people, He’s really hard to see.

 
How critical we can be of the innkeeper who sent Mary and Joseph to a stable to sleep rather than give them a room.  And yet we’re often just as insensitive to the Son of God when He comes to us in people and we don’t recognize Him because we couldn’t or wouldn’t look past what they did and see who they are.  The purpose of these next four weeks is to help us and to prepare us to welcome Christ who will come to us again and again and again in family, in friends and in strangers alike.  

 
For many people Christmas is nothing more than a time for flashing lights and pretty packages, a time for giving gifts and singing songs and trimming trees.  That’s so sad because that’s so shallow.  Christmas is so much more.  It’s the recognition and the celebration of the coming of the Son of God into our world and into our life.  If we’re going to celebrate that, we have to prepare ourself.  And that’s what Advent is for.  

 
As we know all too well, these next four weeks will pass very quickly,  Let’s make sure we use them wisely by trying to remember and to recognize the nearness of Christ to us in the people we have to deal with every day, whether He is easily seen there or not.  If we do that this Advent, then when Christmas comes, we’ll be celebrating the true meaning and the real mystery of that holy day.  

 

Sunday, November 25,  2007

If you can judge the importance of a word or a concept by the frequency with which it appears in a piece of literature, then certainly the word, “King” would have unparalleled importance in the Bible.  Thanks to my computer I found out the word king or its various derivatives appear over 6,300 times in the Scriptures.  This quantity shows just how pervasive was the position of king in the history and theology of the Jewish people before and during the time of Christ.  As our first reading today indicates, when the people of Israel came to King David and said to him, “Here we are, your bone and your flesh.”, it was their way of expressing their unity with him.  The king encapsulated the people.   They wouldn’t have been a people without a king and he wouldn’t have been a king without the people.

 
Since such honor, respect and obedience was given to the king of the Jews, it comes as incongruous to hear in today’s Gospel that title so blatantly abused.  What kind of a king hangs on a cruel cross rather than preside from a splendid throne?  What kind of a king wears no royal robe but only a blood soaked loin cloth?  What kind of a king has a crown of piercing thorns rather than one of priceless jewels?  What kind of a king has a hand not holding a scepter but pierced by a nail?  The answer is, of course, Christ the King, or more specifically, Christ our King.

 
St. Luke picks up the story of our King’s final hour before his death.  Just before the beginning of today’s Gospel, he wrote, “The people stood by and watched.”  He omitted the comment which you find in St. Mark and St. Matthew where they say, “Those passing by reviled Him.”  Instead, Luke chose to have the leaders of the people reviling Jesus, mocking Him and taunting Him.  They completely misunderstood and misinterpreted who Jesus was and why Jesus was here.  Not once, not twice but three times in today’s Gospel they taunted Him to save Himself.  

 
But Jesus had not come into the world to save Himself.  He came to save us.  His priority as a preacher, a healer and a savior was made specific when He said, “The Son of Man didn’t come to be served but to serve and to give his life as ransom for many.”  On the night before He died, Jesus had blessed and broken the bread and said, “This is my body which will be given for you.”  Over the cup filled with wine He said, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood which shall be shed for you.”  Christ our King hadn’t come to serve and to save Himself.  He came to serve and to save us.

 
Today’s Gospel reminds us just how personally and specifically our Lord fulfilled this mission.  Only in Luke’s Gospel do we find this incident in which Jesus guaranteed salvation to one of the criminals crucified with Him, the familiar Good Thief which, when you think about it, was this thief’s final act of larceny.  He stole heaven when he had the courage to ask the King who was dying with him, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.”  And Christ the King did remember him when He promised, “Amen, I say to you, today you will be with Me in Paradise.”  

 
Our King of Kings and Lord of Lords is the Good Shepherd who knows and remembers every one of his flock personally.  He remembers each one of us by name, face to face and heart to heart.  We may think that the world is so huge, the Catholic Church is so large, even this parish is so big that no one can know everyone.  But Jesus knows us and He remembers each and every one of us, individually and intimately.

 
Just as Christ our King remembers us, it is our privilege and our duty to remember Him.  We are people who don’t forget Jesus and what He’s said and done for us.  That’s why we come together like this, Sunday after Sunday, week after week, month after month, year after year.  We come here to refresh and renew our memory of our beloved King. Here is where bread is offered and changed into the Body of Christ.  Here is where wine is offered and changed into the Blood of Christ.  Why do we keep doing this?   Simply because on the night before He died, Jesus told us to “Do this in memory of Me.”

 
The Eucharist is the prime time for us to renew the prayer of the Good Thief: “Jesus, remember me, remember all of us now that you have come into your kingdom.”  And the eternal King renews his promise to us when we eat his flesh and drink his blood.  He’s assured us that whoever does this has eternal life and He will raise us on the last day. 

 
And so today we truly call Christ our King.  He lived a noble life.  In the face of incredible injustice He died a noble death.  And He set a powerful example to every man and woman, to every teenager and child, that we should live just as nobly as He did.

 
But that cannot happen unless we claim to be subjects of his kingship.  We don’t belong to Christ’s Kingdom unless we want to, unless we choose to, unless we decide to.  And that can't happen without our own personal decision to put on the mind and heart of Christ the King.

 
Today is November 25.  One month from today, on December 25, we’ll gather here to celebrate the birth of a new born King.  In preparation for that, next week we begin Advent.  As we start to prepare for the celebration of the birth of the King of Kings, let's keep in mind what is demanded of us because of his birth.  And let’s ask the Lord for the grace we need to decide to put ourself under the Kingship of Jesus Christ.

 

Sunday, November 18,  2007

Jesus’ return to earth at the end of the world is probably one of the most controversial and confusing teachings in the New Testament.  The Gospels say that after the Apostles saw our Lord ascend into heaven, they were told that He would come back to them.  And ever since then  there have been people who were convinced that He would be returning in their day.  Across 2,000 years, the final return of Christ has been the subject of endless speculation and it has often been understood in unfortunate and even destructive ways.

 
In St. Paul’s earliest letters, like 1 & 2 Thessalonians, it’s clear that he felt that Jesus would be returning at any moment.  But then days became months and months became years.  He and the rest of those early Christians had never considered that some of them might die before the Lord would come back.  But it began to happen.  And that was tough for them.  You can trace Paul’s moderating his own perspective through his later letters where you see that he hadn’t stopped believing in Christ’s return but he had accepted that it probably wouldn't happen in his own lifetime.  However, in every generation since, there have been Christians who have believed that they would see the return of Jesus for themselves.

 
Down through the centuries there have been individuals and even whole groups of people who have thought that this or that was a sign that Christ was coming.  And all of them were wrong.  In fact, just a few years ago a group of people in South Korea announced that they believed the end was at hand.  Many of the group's 20,000 members left their jobs, quit school, sold their homes and gave away all their possessions in preparation for Christ’s return.  When it didn’t happen, most of them were left homeless and destitute.  There are all kinds of incidents and examples in a long history of confusion about the return of Christ and many of them had tragic consequences.  

 
On top of that, there are questions about how the world will end.  WIll it be with a glorious appearance of the risen Lord or something less dramatic but just as cataclysmic?  The Discovery Channel had a program on last Sunday evening about natural events that could bring about the destruction of the world.  Things like an asteroid hitting the earth or a black hole moving into our solar system or a super-eruption of volcanoes that would blanket the world in ash and cut off sunlight or a gamma burst of radiation from a nearby exploding star.

 
Maybe Christ’s final coming is a confusing teaching for you, too.  Maybe you’ve wondered how anyone can really believe that after 2000 years Jesus might be returning to earth at any particular moment.  Just what are we supposed to believe?  I think the wisest thing to say is that as Catholics we firmly believe and profess the eventual, ultimate return of Jesus Christ but we really don’t know when it will happen or how it will come.  We just believe that it will take place.  

 
But we should listen to Jesus’ own words.  In St. Mark’s Gospel He said,  “About that day and hour, no one knows, neither the angels in heaven nor the Son but only the Father.”  The fact of the matter is that we need to humbly admit that some truths are simply beyond our comprehension.  Some things we’ll never know or understand.  But that doesn’t mean that we can’t grasp the implications of something we can’t understand.

 
When Jesus spoke of the future, it wasn’t to provide information about how and when the world would end.  It was to encourage responsible and faithful living in the present.  In today’s Gospel, He spoke to his disciples of the coming destruction of the temple in Jerusalem. He also said there will be many wars and natural calamities that lie ahead.  He warned them that they themselves would be persecuted.  But He offered words of encouragement.  He said, “By your perseverance you will save your lives.”  And then He warned against being led astray by those who come in his name proclaiming that the end is soon.

 
What does all of this have to do with us?  Well, there are many things more important than knowing when the world will end.  One is to see the significance of the fact that the end is not yet.  The end is in God’s hands.  Faith’s main business isn’t in speculating about the future but in living faithfully in the present.  We’re here to live wisely and responsibly, being faithful stewards of our days, our gifts and our opportunities.  None of us knows how much time any one of us has left.  But, for all of us, the end isn’t yet.  You and I still have life and we still have time, both of which are gifts from God.

 
This past week TNT showed the movie, Saving Private Ryan.  It’s a powerful story from World War II.  It opens with Private Ryan, now an old man, paying his respects at the grave of a Captain Miller.  Years before, in the war, Miller had been responsible for saving Ryan’s life but at the cost of his own.  With his dying breath, Captain Miller had challenged Private Ryan to “earn” the gift he had been given, the gift of continued life.  The movie’s very touching opening scene shows the aging Ryan at the Captain’s grave, not just saying thank you, but trying to say that he had done his best with the life that Miller had given him.

 
Is that something that we can say to God for the blessings that we’ve been given -- that we really have done the best with what we’ve received?  And we’ve all been blessed in so many ways.  We, too, have been blessed with the gift of life, earthly life and spiritual life.  We’ve been blessed with the gift of time.  We’ve been blessed with talents and abilities.  We’ve been blessed with whatever our financial resources may be.  We’ve been blessed with our faith in a loving and generous God.  We’ve been blessed by being loved and cared about by friends and family members.  Most of us have been blessed with good health.  Some of us may have been blessed with the gift of a very important or influential job or position.  Think of all the many and varied ways you’ve been blessed.

 
Have we been generous, sacrificially generous, in using and giving and sharing what God has given to us?  If not or if we can do better, there’s good news.  The end isn’t here yet.  We’re still here.  But we don’t know for how long.  So while there is time, there is no time for idleness.  The purpose of living is to find generous ways to give back to God what we have received from God.  And, in doing so, we know that He will bless us for our generosity when the time comes for us to stand before Him and to give an accounting for what we have done with what we have received.  It’s then that, hopefully, the good Lord will smile on us and say, “Well done, good and faithful servant.  Come, share your Master’s joy.”

 
And please bear this in mind when we take up a second collection today to support the Catholic Campaign for Human Development.  This Campaign funds programs that provide education and training to the poor and unskilled so they can pull themselves out of poverty.  Please be as generous as you can. 

 

Sunday, November 4,  2007

The Gospel today said that Zacchaeus wanted to see Jesus but because of the crowd he had to climb a tree to do so because he was short of stature.  Now this may not seem to be a very important detail about him.  However, when you realize how rarely, if ever, the Scriptures give any physical description of any character in the Biblical accounts, we should pay attention to any detail that does appear about someone’s physical appearance.  For example, notice that the Gospels don’t record a single physical description of Jesus.  We don’t know his height,  his facial features, whether or not he had a beard.  We don’t know the color of his eyes or the color of his hair, or even if He had hair.  Maybe He was bald.  These details would never be omitted from a modern biographer’s account of a famous person.  But the Bible don’t mention any of these kinds of details.  Why?  Well, the writers of the Scriptures just didn’t share our curiosity about such matters.  They thought, who cares?  So, when the Bible does record a physical description, we should probably sit up and take notice.

Zacchaeus is described as very short.  The Greek word used to describe him was “micros”, from which we get the word “microscopic”.  So, he was certainly vertically challenged.  Besides helping us understand why a grown man would climb a tree to see Jesus pass by, what’s the significance of this reference to his short height?  

Just imagine what it must have been like for Zacchaeus as he grew up.  All his life he must have been the victim of insensitive jokes and comments about his shortness.  He was probably pushed around by bullies as a child, always shorter than the girls whose attention and affection he must have sought as a teenager, always living under the cloud of resentment and insult as he struggled to live in a world of giants.  Maybe Zacchaeus made a childhood vow that “one day, they'll all lookup to me.”  And to compensate for his lack of height, He learned to be ruthless as he got older.  Could the war within him over his physical condition be the explanation for the man he became in later life?  If so, he would not be the first nor the last person whose bruised adulthood began with a wounded childhood.

We also know that Zacchaeus was rich.  In fact, he was very rich.  Now, at first glance, we might think his wealth was something positive about him.  Obviously, he was a hard worker.  But when you consider the context in Luke’s Gospel where this story appears, we realize that Luke is telling us that Zacchaeus was not a very likable individual.  Just the chapter before this one, Luke told about a rich ruler who sought to follow our Lord but who failed to do so because of his great wealth.  As Jesus watched that rich man leave, He remarked with great sadness, “How difficult it is for a rich person to enter the Kingdom of God.  It’s easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the Kingdom of God.”  And now, right on the heels of that story, Luke introduces us to Zacchaeus, a man of enormous wealth.  But to make matters worse, the rich ruler of the previous chapter was at least a good, God-fearing, commandment-honoring individual.  Zacchaeus, by contrast, was a total reprobate.  As a tax collector, he was an extortionist and crook who defrauded his own people.  When he was born, his Jewish parents probably named him Zachariah, a cherished and honored Jewish name that meant “righteous one.”  But over the years, he failed to live up to that name and it was shortened, no pun intended, to Zacchaeus.  He was a chief tax collector, a man who cheated anyone and everyone in order to earn an extra shekel.

Zacchaeus was the town’s chief sinner according to every religious, political or polite standard one could imagine.  And Luke’s Gospel is full of stories where wealth is a signal of bad things to come.  Do you remember the story of the rich foolish farmer who died while planning his retirement and building bigger barns to store his stuff?  Or the story about the rich man who ended up in torment because he didn’t show mercy to the beggar Lazarus?

But then, just when we’re tempted to read Luke’s account as a condemnation of all riches and all rich people, here is this story of Zacchaeus, a sawed off shyster of a man, a swindler and a crook who made his wealth in the worst ways possible, but who ended up at the table with the Lord, welcomed in the Kingdom of God.  As the kids would say today, “What’s up with that?”

Well, the third thing and the main thing we know about Zacchaeus is that he was still a child of Abraham, a child of God, a child of promise and redemption.  This is really the point of the story about him.  If that man, with so much baggage from the sins of others against him as well as the enormous baggage of the sins he committed against others in return, if that man can be redeemed, then anyone can be redeemed.  Wealth or the absence of wealth, isn’t a predictor of spiritual status after all.  The opinions of an entire village don’t count as much as the opinion of God.  And whatever one’s past, no matter how wrong, how sinful, how misdirected, there is always a possible new future because of God’s grace, if we’ll just accept the invitation of Christ.

To the surprise and disgust of most of the proper people in the town, Jesus ended up saying about Zacchaeus, “This one, too, is a son of Abraham.”  In other words, Jesus welcomed him back into the community of faith by returning to him his true name, calling him again a righteous one in the family of God.

And with that amazing word of grace, as they celebrated around a table, Zacchaeus was so overwhelmed by God’s love for him that it soaked all the way to his wallet.  And the former tax collector became a wealth dispenser, splashing grace everywhere in the same way it had come to him.  Was it a miracle?  Oh, yes.  It was the day that a camel passed through the eye of a needle.  

Let none of us ever think that we are beyond hope, beyond redemption or beyond the mercy of God.  Let none of us ever believe that anything we’ve done or we’ve failed to do lessens us in the eyes of God.  And let none of us ever forget that, whatever our age, we still are and always will be a child of God, loved, forgiven and saved by the One who has given us a share in his very life.

 

 

Sunday, October 21,  2007

Did I ever tell you the story about the big, burley man who walked into the grocery store one day, went to the young clerk and said, “I want to buy a half a head of cabbage.” The kid looked up at him and said, “I’m sorry, sir, but we only sell whole heads.” The man glared at him, got in his face and said quite emphatically, “Listen, buddy, I don’t want a whole head. I only want a half a head. Now are you going to sell it to me or not?” Rather meekly the clerk said, “Just a minute. I’ll ask the manager.” He walked down the aisle and into the stockroom where the manager was unpacking produce. The young man said, “Hey, there’s a big, stupid-looking guy out there and he wants to buy a half a head of cabbage.” Just then he heard a noise behind him. He turned to see that the man had followed him and heard every word he had said. Turning back to the manager he said, “And this gentleman would like to purchase the other half of the head.” 
 
Now, we can split cabbages and we can split hairs but we can’t be half hearted or take halfway measures in our yearning for God or in our conforming our life to his ways. And we can draw this lesson from the story we just heard in the Gospel about the poor widow’s persistence in her pursuit for justice as she stood alone and defenseless before a corrupt judge. 
 
In our Lord’s time, being a wife wasn’t easy. It was almost like being a slave. She had few rights. She couldn’t divorce her husband but her husband could divorce her with a stroke of a pen. She was considered as just another of her husband’s possessions, along with the house, land and oxen. And she had to do much of the hard work. 
 
However, she did have some protection by law but when her husband died, her rather meager economic and social status deteriorated immensely. Because she couldn’t inherit anything from him, a widow joined the ranks of orphans and impoverished and she was indeed a charity case. 
 
In Jesus’ parable, a poor widow stood before a crooked judge who couldn’t have cared less about her. Time after time, the widow came before him and said, “I want justice from you.” And time after time, she was denied. But she kept coming and coming. Finally, the weary judge gave into the woman’s persistence. He said, “While it’s true that I neither fear God nor respect any human being, because this widow keeps bothering me I’ll deliver a just decision for her.” The judge was literally nagged into doing the right thing. 
 
Our Lord drew a lesson from this parable by saying. “Will not God then secure the rights of his chosen ones who call out to Him day and night? I tell you, He’ll see to it that justice is done for them speedily.” 
 
To really understand the parable, you have to understand the biblical concept of justice. We tend to use the word in terms of a “fair administration of the law.” But that’s not the way the Bible understands it. The Scriptures speak of two kinds of justice, divine justice and human justice. 
 
Divine justice, God’s justice, means that God is always faithful to his promises. God is always faithful to his word. God always does what He says He’ll do. God is just, not because He rewards good and punishes evil. God is just because He is forever faithful to the Words He speaks and to the ones He loves. 
 
Human justice is what we’re called to, which is to acknowledge in word and in deed that God is our Father, that Jesus is his Son and that we are brothers and sisters in his Holy Spirit. Our acting justly to one another is respecting the reality of who we are and it’s a responding to God’s fidelity to us with our fidelity to Him and each other. It means that we persistently and consistently turn to God who will not reluctantly show us his justice like the corrupt judge but who will honestly and earnestly desire us to know how much on our side He really is. 
 
I think that sometimes we’re our own worst enemy. I think there are times that we don’t really believe that God is on our side, that we don’t really think that God cares that much about us individually. 
 
Do you really believe that God knows and understands what you went through today, and every day? Do you really believe that today God shared your smiles as well as those things that brought you worry or sorrow? Do you really believe that God hurts when you hurt, that He laughs when you laugh and that He holds you in the palm of his hands? 
 
That’s the glory of being a Christian -- because we can believe, because we can know, because we can trust that the God of all creation is that deeply in love with us and will be with us through thick and thin. And that’s especially the glory of being Catholic -- because we not only believe that but we celebrate that in the Eucharist. How much closer can God get to us than when we receive Him in Holy Communion? How much more can He convince us of his love for us than when He invites us to share his very life? And how much more can we be charged to treat one another fairly and justly than when we’re reminded that we’re all drawn together as brothers and sisters in Christ? 
 
I think it would be good for all of us to ask ourself if we think that those around us would say that we treat them with justice, that we’re true to our word and faithful to our promises. Let’s not forget that when we stand before the mirror on Judgment Day and we look at the deeds of our life, hopefully we’ll see reflected back to us a true fidelity to Jesus Christ and his Gospel. Hopefully, we’ll see that we’ve treated God justly because we recognized his fidelity to us and we’ve treated those around us justly because we treated them as sisters and brothers in Christ. 
 
That’s how we give God glory. That’s how we give God honor. And that’s how we give ourself the assurance that we’ll have no fear of standing before God on that day of judgment. 
 

 

Sunday, October 14,  2007

One of the most unique things about us human beings is that we’re the only living things on earth that don't automatically mature to be what we’re supposed to be. Puppies become dogs. Saplings become trees. Bulbs become tulips. But in our case, certain choices and decisions have to be made, certain things have to happen before we develop into wise and mature adults. And unless we make the right decisions and choices, it’s possible for us to become less than what we were created to be. We may be mature on the outside but we can still be very immature and undeveloped on the inside where it really matters, where it really counts. 
 
The grand thing about the coming of Christ is that He shows us what it means to be a full human person. One of the attitudes that Jesus possessed and an attitude that really is necessary in any healthy, happy and holy personality is what we found in the first and third readings of today’s Mass. 
Both of them were stories of people who knew in their heart that God had touched their life in some way and they were humbled by it. And as a result they wanted to express their appreciation both in word and in deed. They were grateful, they were thankful, they felt indebted for what God had done for them. And I think it’s vital for us to realize that without that sense of indebtedness, we can never be mature and balanced and healthy human beings. 
 
I know people, and I assume you do too, who take a lot of things in life for granted. In fact, they take much too much for granted. And it probably shows itself in the kinds of prayers they say. Did you ever hear the story about the two angels who were sent by God to earth to gather up the world’s prayers? One angel was to fill a basket with the prayers of petition that were said and the other angel was told to gather all the prayers of thanksgiving that were offered. Some time later, they returned to God’s throne. One had a basket heaping high and running over with innumerable requests of every kind and shape. The other angel returned with a sad and heavy heart because his basket was almost empty. 
 
To be able to speak with appreciation and gratitude to God, as well as to one’s family and friends, is one of those qualities possessed by holy people which is a holiness to which all of us are called. In the 1950s there was a Secretary General of the U.N. named Dag Hammerskjold.  I remember as a teenager reading how he was killed in a plane crash while on a peace mission in Africa in 1961. Years later his private journal was published, a book called “Markings”. It was a kind of a spiritual diary of his in which he struggled with a deeply personal and private faith in the context of his calling to one of the most visible and influential offices in international politics. I’ll always remember one quote of his out of that book. It simply went, “Lord, for all that has been, thanks. For all that will be, yes.” 
 
I’m sure that line puzzles many people. Some wonder if that means we should be thankful for having bad days, for experiencing personal failures, for suffering injustice, for making mistakes and even for committing sins? “For all that has been, thanks.” 
 
Well, maybe we should. Maybe the way to look at things like that is that there is a reason to be thankful for even the unpleasant and trying events in life — if we’ve learned from them, if we’ve grown in a sense of our fundamental helplessness and our dependency on God to get us through difficult times. We need to realize that, in the grand scheme of things, there is more good than evil in this world and that God has personally touched each one of us and blessed us with so much that we’d be amazed if we ever took time to really look for it. It’s all too easy for or us to see the bad and ignore the good, to count our crosses and not our blessings and to complain about what God hasn’t done for us rather than what He has done. What a perfect prayer. For all that has been, thanks. 
 
It wasn’t by accident that even before what we’re now doing became called the Mass, it was called the Eucharist, a word that means “Thanksgiving.” The first believers in Jesus saw the Eucharist as an action for people of faith to come together as a community in order to thank God for having touched them through Jesus Christ and having graced them with the Holy Spirit. 
 
It’s from the simple action of reading the Word of God and sharing the Bread of Life that this more elaborate ritual of today’s Mass has developed. But the meaning is the same. We’re here to give thanks. And if someone has nothing to be thankful for, it’s really sad because it means that for them the Mass is probably an empty investment of 50 - 55 minutes every week. 
 
It’s troubling to hear people sometimes say, “I don’t get anything out of Mass” because it means that they’ve come here to get something rather than to give something. It’s sad to see people not realize that, even in life’s painful and hurting moments, they need to give thanks that God is really there to strengthen them, to sustain them and to love them in their struggles. 
 
There’s a beautiful and true story of a mother who had several children, one of whom was being picked on in school. The mother agonized for days over what to do about it. Finally, she decided the best thing to do was to keep out of it. Having made that decision, she soon began to have second thoughts and she worried that she might be wrong to let her son work out his problems by himself. For days she had difficulty sleeping. Finally, one afternoon she got into her car and drove out into the country, just to get away from it for a few hours. After a while, she pulled off to the side of the road, put her head on the wheel and wept. When she was all cried out, she picked up her head and looked out in wonder at a field of golden wheat that she was parked next to. 
 
At first, she was overwhelmed by the beauty of the wheat waving in the wind. But as she watched it for a while, she realized that there was something more going on. And I want to read to you her words. She said, “I know God was saying something to me in that wheat field. And so, I dried my eyes and I let the glories of that field pour into me. I began to experience the love of God in my life. God didn’t send me any easy solution to my problem, just the assurance of his knowing and his caring. And that was enough because I knew that the same Fatherly love would reach down to touch my hurting child.” 
 
There’s a woman of keen insight and of deep faith. She knew that, in the midst of her wonders and her worries, God was present. She knew she’d been touched by the Lord and healed as surely as was the leper in the Gospel and Naaman in the first reading. Here was a woman who had reason to celebrate Eucharist. No one needs to wonder what kind of prayers she said because you can hear in her words that, even in her turmoil and anxiety, she was confident that God was there and that something good would come out of the uncertainty she was going through. 
 
I hope that all of us have that kind of gratitude, that kind of thankfulness, that God has not only gifted us with life but that He is present with us in every moment in that life. If we have that kind of gratitude, then whatever comes our way, we’ll accept it with the confidence that we don’t face it alone but with God Almighty at our side. For all that has been, thanks and for all that will be, yes. 
 

 

Sunday, October 7th 2007

In today's Gospel, our Lord told a story that never has been and probably never will be widely popular. In fact, I’ll bet most people aren’t even aware of it. And those who are would probably prefer that He had never told it. There’s a harshness to it that seems to violate our every image of Jesus as a kind and caring person. 
 
He pictured a slave who had worked all day in the field, plowing and tending sheep. Then, at sundown, he went to the house and continued working. Even though his body ached with weariness, he was required to prepare and serve his master’s meal. After that, but only after that, was the slave allowed time to rest and eat. And to make matters worse, the master didn’t feel or show one ounce of appreciation for all that his slave had done. 
 
This isn’t a pleasant story. In fact, it’s quite unpleasant. There are at least two things about it that need to be said right up front. One is that it depicts a social and economic system that was evil to the core. Slavery was based on greed, arrogance and cruelty, all of the worst traits in human nature. It was a way of life that should never have been. 
 
The second thing should be obvious. The telling of this story doesn't imply that our Lord approved of what it portrays. To the contrary, we can say with certainty that He wholeheartedly disapproved of it. This was the very system that Jesus had in mind when He said to his disciples: “Among the Gentiles, the rulers lord it over their subjects.  It cannot be that way with you. Whoever among you wishes to rank first must become the servant of the rest.” 
 
With that statement, our Lord stood the system of slavery on its head and rejected everything it stood for. But then, why did He use this inhuman practice in a parable and include it in his collection of beautiful stories? I think the answer to that question must be this: For all of its ugliness, this was a real slice of life. It was the way that many people had to live in that time and place. They were slaves, obviously not by choice, but slaves nonetheless. And those who found themselves in that circumstance had almost no control over their own life. About the only realistic option a slave had was to face up to his fate and make the best of it. To expect and demand more than that was to ask for trouble, big trouble. At the very least, he would be setting himself up for bitter disappointment. 
 
Jesus saw this as a parable of life. He said to his disciples, “So it is with you who hear Me.” In other words, what’s true for the slave is, to a certain degree, true for all of us. We all have circumstances in our lives that we didn't and would never have chosen for ourselves. They were simply given to us or imposed on us. We would avoid them or change them, if we could. But in some cases that’s not possible. And the only realistic option we have is to deal with life as it is, not as we wish it was or we think it ought to be. 
 
There’s a kind of healthy fatalism in this story. If that slave had hoped for a 40 hour work week, the only thing he would have gotten was disappointment. If he had expected appreciation, the only thing he would have become was bitter. The best thing he could do for himself was face the facts. He was destined to work long, hard hours with little compensation and no appreciation. That was a cruel fate. But it was his fate and the healthiest thing he could do was accept it. 
 
Someone may say that he should have escaped. And I agree. He should have, if he could have. But that was highly improbable. The entire Roman Empire was a slave territory. There was no place to run. And runaway slaves, when caught, were not treated kindly. 
 
Someone else may say that the system should have been changed. And I agree. But it takes a long time to change such a system. Of course, it eventually happened but it took a long, long time. The change came much too late to help this first century individual. His best hope, his most healthy response, was to accept the role that life had assigned him and to do so with strength and with courage. 
 
Isn’t it sometimes that way with you and me? Life does things to us that are often unfair, occasionally cruel, and always demanding. Some of those things we should avoid, if we can. Others of them we should change, if we could. But often our problems can’t be solved in either of these ways. What then? The only healthy answer at that point is to accept life as it really is and deal with it. 
 
Most of us have heard that prayer made famous by Alcoholics Anonymous. “God, give me the courage to change the things I can, the patience to accept the things I cannot and the wisdom to know the difference.” That prayer was written by a Protestant theologian named Reinhold Neibuhr. But there’s a second verse to it that’s not as well known. It goes, “Taking, as Christ did, this sinful world as it is and not as I would have it, trusting that He will make all things right, if I surrender to his will.” 
 
That’s a very healthy prayer because it recognizes that life is often hard and unfair and requires courage to get through it. And that courage comes from an underlying faith and trust in God. 
 
That’s essentially what St. Paul was saying when he wrote to his young friend Timothy. In our second reading today he said, “God did not give us a spirit of cowardice but rather of power and love and self-control.” Those are the ingredients of a strong faith and a deep spirituality. 
 
Never think that what life throws at you is too much for you to handle.  Know that God has sent you his Holy Spirit to help you deal with all the problems, temptations, habits and crosses that seem so large and overwhelming. If that faith enabled Paul to deal with all the things that troubled him, there’s no reason to doubt that that same faith will enable us to deal with all that trouble us. 
 
 

 

Sunday, September 30, 2007

There are few people today who have never heard of a disease called “Alzheimer’s”. Many of you here may know someone, maybe even a family member, who suffers from this terrible ailment. Its primary victims are older people and its primary symptom is loss of memory. People with this disease will often forget who they are, where they live and the names of their loved ones. I was talking to a man not too long ago who said he was helping his wife get dressed in the morning and he gave her a wash cloth and told her to wash her face. She just looked at him and said, “Where’s my face.” Alzheimer’s is a devastating disease. To take away one’s memory is to take away one’s life. The tragic loss of memory serves to remind us how important it is in our life. 
 
In our Gospel today, Jesus told a story that talks about memory. It was about a rich man and a poor man. The rich man lived in luxury. He wore fine clothes and he ate fine food. The poor man lived in squalor and misery. He lay at the gate of the rich man’s house, hoping for the scraps of food that were thrown away. The man’s name was Lazarus. Interestingly, of all the stories that Jesus told, this is the only one where a person was given a name. I don’t know why. Maybe it’s because our Lord wanted to show the affinity He had for the poor. He refused to leave this needy man a nameless nobody so He honored HIm with a name. 
 
At some point Lazarus died and was transported by angels to the bosom of Abraham. The rich man also died and woke up in Hades, the place of the dead. The first words spoken in this parable were by the rich man.  He asked Abraham to send Lazarus to relieve his misery. This request was denied. Instead, Abraham told him to remember his abundant life. There was a time when he was in a position to help Lazarus. But he never lifted a finger. Now all he could do was remember his own hardhearted indifference. 
 
The rich man was a classic example of too little too late. This could have been a totally different story if he had used his memory in a more timely fashion. Suppose, before beginning one of those sumptuous feasts, he had remembered the man who was starving at his front gate. Suppose he had taken that man a plate of food. Or better yet, suppose he had invited him in and set a place for him at the table. A better use of his memory would have made a world of difference, not only for Lazarus but especially for himself. 
 
Memory is such an important capacity we all have. In fact, it’s so important that, if you don’t know how to remember, you can’t be a Christian. A believer in Jesus Christ is someone who is acutely aware of how he or she has been blessed by God. Believers are those who remember well not only what God has done for them in the past but, just as importantly, what God has done for them in the present. Believers are those who remember every day what God has done and is doing for them and they feel a deep sense of gratitude for it all. 
 
I’ll never forget what someone once told me. It’s so simple that it’s profound. “God does not call us to be good. God calls us to be holy.”  You don’t need God in order to be a good person. You do need God in order to be a holy person. Holiness is not some kind of excessive piety. It’s a way of living marked by wholeness, balance, gratitude and sharing, all rooted in the basic commitment to follow Jesus Christ and to live as He lived, no matter where He leads and no matter what it demands. The call to be a holy person is a call to take the risk of walking with Christ Jesus. 
 
Somebody once asked the question, “If all you had today was what you gave thanks for yesterday, what would you have?” What did you thank God for yesterday? And if you didn’t thank God for anything yesterday, what should you have thanked Him for? Or to put it another way, what will you thank God for today, if you want it tomorrow? 
 
Sometimes when we’re told to count our blessings, we don’t think we have that much for which to be grateful. Granted, many of us have our health and our family and our home and maybe we can list a few other things. But did you ever sit down and try to make a list of your blessings? Again, if you listed those things that if you didn’t thank God for them today and you wouldn’t have them tomorrow, I’ll bet your list would start getting pretty long. 
 
This spirit of gratitude is the basis for what we call Stewardship and the heart of Stewardship is a call to be a holy person because it’s a commitment that influences the choices we make in life, the big ones and perhaps more importantly the small ones we make every day. 
 
Tonight we’re beginning a 3 evening Mission on which we’ll reflect more deeply on this idea of Stewardship. Fr. Dan Mahan, a priest of the Archdiocese of Indianapolis, is a noted speaker and author on this subject. We have joined St. Joseph Parish in Amherst and St. Julie Billiart Parish in North Ridgeville in bringing Fr. Mahan here. Tonight at 7 pm he will speak at St. Joseph’s Church and will conclude his talk with Benediction. Tomorrow he’ll be here at our church at 7 pm and give different talk and when it’s over everyone will be given the opportunity to receive the Sacrament of Penance, if they wish. And on Tuesday, he’ll give a final talk at St. Julie’s Parish and the evening will conclude with a social. I hope you’ll be able to come to all or at least some of his talks. If you need a ride, call the Parish Office and we’ll try to arrange one for you. 
 
The point is that we need to remember and we need to be grateful. Unless and until we do that, we’ll never understand the message of Jesus and the power of his teachings. Let’s not be like the rich man who suffered from spiritual Alzheimer’s. He was so focused on himself that he had no sense of gratitude and, therefore, no feelings for those who were on his very doorstep. Instead, let’s develop a holiness based on our appreciation for the multiple ways that God has touched our life. 
 

 


Sunday, September 9,  2007

State of the Parish

As you know, this past year we have joined with every other parish in our diocese in the process of clustering. Each of the 231 parishes in the Cleveland diocese has been assigned to one of 69 clusters. With the population move from the cities to suburbs over these past 30 or 40 years, some parishes have lost a large number of people and others, like ours, have gained significant numbers. Also, because of the increasing cost of running schools and maintaining churches there is a need to look for more creative, efficient and cost effective ways to function. Add to that the aging of the clergy and the significant decline in numbers of those being ordained and, whether we like it or not, we have to look for new and better ways to operate if we’re going to maintain a vibrant parish life. 
 
I’ve mentioned this statistic before and I repeat it again because it is striking. Today, over half of the dioceses in the United States have fewer priests than they have parishes, ie, they have more parishes than they have priests to serve them. Our diocese is not there yet but the day is not far off when we will be. We can wait and do nothing and worry about it when it happens or we can be proactive and prepare for the day so that when it comes we’ll be functioning in a way that adjusts to the realities that we’ll be facing. 
 
I don’t know what that means and how we’ll do it but I do know that we have begun the process of trying to figure it out. Our parish is in a cluster with St. Adalbert’s and St. Mary’s in Berea. Each parish has five representatives, the pastor and 4 parishioners, and we meet on the third Tuesday of each month. We have been given a time line that we have to follow, meaning that by October 15 of 2008 we have to submit to Bishop Lennon our clustering plan, ie, what specific changes or adjustments we will be making so that our three parishes can be more closely connected while at the same time respecting the individuality and history and identity of each parish. We were not told that we had to reduce the number of parishes in our cluster or to close or merge our schools like some other clusters were told where the declining population has made it unfeasible to continue operating as they had in the past. We were told to look for ways that we can operate more collaboratively and cooperatively in order to better utilize the personnel and the resources we have available. 
 
All of us involved in this endeavor know that it’s very important that we keep the members of all three parishes informed of everything we’re talking about and we get their input on issues before we make any decisions. And that we shall do. As you can imagine the task that lies before us is challenging but it’s an exciting one as we work to make our parishes more vibrant in the days that lie ahead. 
 
In all of this, communication is vital. I do ask you to regularly read the Sunday bulletin since that’s our primary tool of keeping you informed of what’s happening in our parish, not only in terms of Clustering but in the many other activities that make up parish life. 
 
Also, don’t forget we have a parish newsletter, The Insight, which allows us to develop articles at a little more depth than we have room for in the bulletin. It’s mailed quarterly to those who would like to receive it. If you’re interested, please drop a note in the collection basket or give us a call at the office during the week. Also, regarding education, check out the book rack in the side vestibule. It has all kinds of pamphlets on a variety of subjects. They're very inexpensive and make easy reading so do stop for a look some time. 
 
And speaking of communication, be aware that our parish web site is being redesigned and will soon be up and running. Almost anything you need to know about the parish, its organizations & ministries, as well as our grade school is found there. There are also a number of great links, everything from the Diocese to the Vatican. Check it out at stmaryofthefalls.org. 
 
Last October we spent each weekend of that month, reflecting on the concept of Stewardship. Our focus was on the fact that God has blessed each one of us in so many ways, many of which we probably overlook or take for granted. There is a real need for us, in all honesty, to not just count our blessings but to acknowledge our indebtedness and to show it in acts of generosity and service to others in our life and in our church. 
 
We’re going to continue our reflection on stewardship this fall by having a parish mission that focuses on that theme. But we’re going to do it in a little different way. There is a priest named Fr. Daniel Mahan from the archdiocese of Indianapolis who is a nationally known figure and author on this subject and he’s going to be here in Cleveland at the end of September. We have been invited to join St. Julie Billiart Parish in North Ridgeville and St. Joseph Parish in Amherst in sponsoring Fr. Mahan in a three day mission from Sept. 30 - Oct. 2. That weekend Fr. Mahan will preach two of our Masses and will also preach at the other two parishes. We will be invited to his opening talk at St. Joseph’s Church that Sunday evening. On Monday, Fr. will spend the whole day at our parish talking to our school kids and various parish groups and then will speak to us in the evening here in church. On Tuesday, he will spend the day at St. Joseph’s and we’ll all be invited to his closing session at St. Julie’s. So we hope you’ll be able to attend all three nights, if possible. 
 
During this past year, 375 of our seniors over the age of 75 were contacted in order to assess the needs of our elderly. The response was extremely good and the information gathered was helpful in developing a Ministry to Older Adults under the leadership of Judy Stasenko. There will be a meeting on Sunday afternoon, Sept. 23, to explain the coming Parish Nurse Program, a Flu Shot Clinic, a Friendly Visitor Program and a Community Resource Center. They’ll explain the Nursing Home and Homebound Ministries and there’ll be a chance to learn about our Young at Heart group which offers a wonderful social connection for those over 50. They will also explain educational programs and support groups, especially centered on topics and concerns our older adults share. A retreat is planned for those over 60 and a variety of other events and activities. So do mark your calendars for that Sept. 23 meeting. 
 
Also, keep at eye out for the Men’s and Women’s Journey Weekends coming up next Lent. It’s been condensed a bit so that it begins on Saturday morning and concludes at noon on Sunday. It’s a wonderful faith building experience and I highly encourage it for all adults in our parish. 
 
I also want to encourage all parents who have little children who are getting to be near school age to consider sending them to our parish elementary school. We have an excellent day school that provides a strong academic and faith based education. If you’ve never been through our school, just give their office a call and they’d be very happy to give you a tour and answer any questions you may have. 
 
We‘re currently are looking for more lectors and ushers to serve at our weekend Masses. These are important liturgical ministries and are a great way to get involved in a way that benefits the parish as a whole. For information, call the parish office. 
 
We’re going to be starting a council of the Knights of Columbus at our parish. The K of C is a Catholic, family, fraternal and service organization that’s dedicated to the religious, educational, recreational and social welfare of its members and the Church. It’s open to all men 18 and up and their families. There will be an information night on Tuesday, Oct. 23, to answer any questions and I hope we will have a good turnout. 
 
In the bulletin you’ll find our annual financial report. Look it over and if you have any questions, do give me a call. But please know that even though we’re meeting our expenses, it still means that everyone in this parish, including myself, has an obligation to financially support this church. I said earlier that God has blessed each one of us in so many ways that, if we actually made a list of those blessings, we’d be amazed at how long that list would be. One of the ways that we show our gratitude to God is by the way we financially support those who do the work of God. So I ask you to assess how you’re supporting your church. I’ve never stipulated what anyone should put in the collection basket. That’s between you and the Lord. But I do remind you that what you give should reflect your gratitude for what you’ve received. And also, don’t forget that just as your expenses at home have gone up, so have ours here at the parish but on a much grander scale. So please be generous, not because I ask you to be, but because you need to be. 
 
And finally, I’d like to conclude by making an announcement. I don’t know how to say this other than just to say it. This is going to be my last year here at SMOF. I came here in April of 1988 which means that I’m in my 20th year as your pastor. 20 years. No one should be in charge of anything for 20 years. You need a change. Our parish staff needs a change. It’s time to pass the torch to someone else who can help bring fresh ideas and new leadership to the parish. I’m 62 years old and I’ve been a priest for 35 years. That means I’ve been pastor here for almost a third of my life and over half my priesthood. That’s too long. You need a change. I’ve spoken to Bishop Lennon about this twice and he was very understanding. I don’t know when I’ll be leaving.  It depends on where the Bishop feels I can be best used elsewhere. I’ll keep you informed as things develop. But I do want you to know what’s going to happen and I hope you will appreciate my reasoning and respect my decision. 
 
But until I go, we’ve got work to do, together. We’ve got a future to build through our clustering efforts. We’ve got children to educate through our day school and PSR. And, best of all, we’ve got a God to worship through this great sacrament of the Eucharist. And if we do all of this well, we will, as our mission statement says, be building a parish we can truly call home. 
 

 

Fr. Robert J. Cole Pastor
Sunday, September 1,  2007

In one of Aesop’s fables there’s the story about a frog who dreamed of being able to fly. His world was confined to a muddy swamp and his desire of seeing it from above seemed hopeless. Then one day a stork landed near him, looking for minnows that swam in the shallow water. While the stork waited patiently to snare a fish, the frog struck up a conversation. He asked him what it was like to fly and about the sights he would never see since he was bound to the ground. The bird replied that the world was indeed beautiful beyond the frog’s imagining. As he listened, the frog got an idea. He offered to help the stork find where the fish were hiding in exchange for a ride up into the sky. 
 
The stork said it was a deal. The frog showed him the fish and, after he had eaten his fill, the stork agreed to take him for a ride. The only problem was how was the frog going to hang on for the flight? The frog thought and thought and finally he realized that he could grab hold of the stork’s leg with his mouth while the stork flew above the swamp. And that he did. Up they flew, over the swamp, the trees and the nearby hills. And it was beautiful indeed. But after a while in the air, someone on the ground looked up and saw the strange sight of a frog hanging onto a stork’s leg in flight and said, “I wonder which one of those animals thought of that idea?” Since the frog had excellent hearing, his heart swelled with pride, so happy he could fly and that humans might think him so intelligent. So he shouted down to the man, “It was all my idea!” And in that instant the frog fell to his death, a victim of both the earth’s gravity and his own pride. And with that ending, Aesop gave the moral of the story. He said, “Pride goes before a fall.” 
 
Now Aesop wasn’t the first one to teach this profound truth. Centuries earlier, the Old Testament books of Sirach, Proverbs and Ecclesiastes taught the same thing. Pride is the first and trickiest of sins because it hides in the applause of others when we do something good. Pride is the shadow that lurks on the backside of success. And it’s no harmless sin. Pride is a real cancer of our soul. It’s the ruin of our character and it’s the destroyer of healthy relationships because it won’t accept criticism. It’s no wonder the early Church Fathers called pride one of the deadly sins. 
 
Jesus also had something to say on this subject. In today’s Gospel, He used the normal habits of every day life to illustrate how important it is to develop an honest humility to counteract the deadly effects of pride. While He was the guest at the house of a religious leader, our Lord exposed the subtle efforts of the other guests to impress others through careful positioning and posturing around the table. He challenged people to forego these kinds of manipulative techniques and instead to receive simply and humbly whatever hospitality life offered. 
 
Can you imagine life in this world without these kinds of games? What would happen if we weren’t so concerned about what other people thought about us? What would happen if we didn’t care if someone got ahead of us or someone did better than us or someone was served before us or someone earned more than us? It’s as if we’re afraid that others will gain some advantage over us. But Jesus offered us a challenge. He said, in effect, “So what? If you gain the whole world out of those concerns but you lose your own soul or you lose all real relationships along the way, what have you won?” Jesus wants us to set a new pattern in motion in our world, a pattern of honesty and humility, where competitors can be converted into companions, where people shed their masks and accept the wonderful truth that we’re all basically on the same level with each other. 
 
In such a world there’d be no need for this kind of one-upmanship because we’d realize the world isn’t a castle to be taken but a table to be shared. There’d be no need for power grabs because we’d realize that power is only valuable in service to help elevate the powerless, or as Jesus called them, the poor, the crippled, the maimed and the blind. 
 
All of this may seem too unrealistic or too much reaction to table manners in the days of Jesus. But the truth is, it’s in the little things were character is formed and where character is revealed. I think most job interviews should take place during a round of golf or over a meal at a fast food restaurant or in some similar situation because integrity and character and hospitality and patience are revealed in little things when you think no one is looking. The way a person treats the most invisible members of society reveals what way that person really thinks about people as a whole. Little things do matter. Jesus wasn’t terribly concerned with table manners and etiquette for their own sake. Instead He was aiming deeper, to the very core of our souls. He was trying to help us cut out the tumor of pride that can eat our soul alive. 
 
And the table really is the best place to start. Do you remember the legend of King Arthur? His knights sat at a round table that symbolized a society without a pecking order, where everyone gathered around the table with equality. The family kitchen table in our home should be a similar place. It should be where the family prays together, where they enjoy the bounty of food and drink, where memories are preserved, where laughter is shared and where everyone matters, just because they’re family. The table isn’t a place of competition or accomplishment, only a place of fellowship and welcome. 
 
Is it any wonder in our Catholic faith that the table is also the central place of gathering and communion with God and with each other? The altar, the table of the Lord, is the holy place where the vision of Jesus begins to take shape. At God’s table, there is no posturing. All of us here are equal. We’re all in need of forgiveness, of grace, and of the things that only God can offer. At God’s table there is no competition or pushing or shoving because there is enough for everyone.  At God’s table the only way to come is with humility, with outstretched hands and open mouths and hearts. And if that’s true here, at this table, maybe, just maybe, it’s true everywhere else, too. 
 

 

 

Fr. Robert J. Cole Pastor
Sunday, August 19,  2007

Were you ever in a situation where you felt you should act in a particular way because it was the right thing to do but you felt embarrassed to do so?  You knew you should refrain from contributing to gossip or you should speak up and say something positive in someone’s defense or you should speak the truth when lies were being told.  You wanted to but you were too embarrassed or ashamed and later you wondered why you felt that way?  As a Christian, you knew what you should have done but you lacked the courage to do it.  

Today’s Scriptures direct themselves at this problem and they recognize the difficulty.  The first reading was from the prophet Jeremiah.  He was an ordinary man who had no intention of getting himself in any trouble or of causing any flack.  But God said to him, “Speak out against the current abuses going on.”  Jeremiah said, “Why me?”  But he went and did what God told him to do.  He knew that God had called him and he was faithful and loyal to the Lord.  And what was the result?   He got tossed into the mucky mire of a cistern.

Then there’s the Gospel which was certainly a strange reading.  It was about dividing people and it was about fidelity to God.  Jesus said, in effect, “If you’re loyal to Me, you’ll be opposed for it as much as Jeremiah was, as much as the prophets were, as much as I am.”  And, as He pointed out, the opposition can take many shapes and forms and may come from those who are friends or even family.  

One of the human problems we all have a hard time outgrowing is the problem we first experience as teenagers -- peer pressure, ie, the need to be accepted by our equals and the desire to win their approval.  

Those of us who have been through that know that at times this peer pressure may have forced us to adopt the values of our friends because we didn’t want to seem different.  At times it may have caused us to do things we really didn’t believe in but we did it to save face and to make ourself acceptable in their eyes.  Ideally, we grow beyond this preoccupation.  As we mature we grow to learn to think for ourself, to stand independent, to realize that we don’t have to think, act, believe or behave like everybody else.  We realize that being accepted by everyone is not the most important thing in life.  

This level of psychological and emotional maturity takes on a spiritual maturity when we’re willing to face the objection of others because of our loyalty to God.  Spiritual maturity is loyalty to divine values, a loyalty that transcends the concern to be approved or accepted by others.  It’s the ability to stand on our own two feet and say, “I’m going to do this because it’s the right thing to do, because it’s what God wants me to do, and I don’t care if anyone agrees with me or not.”

This kind of spiritual maturity comes about only when we’ve developed a loyalty to a person -- not to a cause or an institution or a church or a philosophy or a legal code but to a person.  Someone once said that Christianity is not a lesson to be learned but a person to be loved and a life to be lived.  And that person is Jesus Christ.  Only when we’re loyal to the person of Jesus of Nazareth will his values become our values and will we be able to face the opposition that will inevitably come our way.

How does this take place?  How do we develop this kind of dedication to God?  The single most moving factor in fostering and nurturing our loyalty to Him is an appreciation of his loyalty to us.  If there’s anything we should be getting out of this Mass by hearing God’s Word and receiving God’s bread, it should be that God Himself is not only very accepting of us and very forgiving of us but God is firmly and totally on our side.

God is devoted to you, committed to you and in love with you.  If our Sunday worship, if our reception of the sacraments and if our personal prayers aren’t building our confidence and our faith in this fact, then something is wrong.  We may not be putting ourself into these spiritual exercises because we’re not listening or concentrating or open to discover what God is really saying and what God is really expecting.

The fact is that God’s loyalty to us is made manifest in Jesus Christ and He carried a cross to show us how true this is.  And now your responsibility, as is mine, is to develop a loyalty to Him that takes precedence over anything else; a loyalty that doesn't get embarrassed or ashamed or dissuaded when others don’t accept our values or agree with our ways.

We are Catholic and we are Christian and we have a way of living, of acting, reacting and interacting with others.  And if some people don’t like it, that’s their problem.  May all of us stand true for what we believe and may we be as loyal to God as God is loyal to us.
 

 

Fr. Robert J. Cole Pastor
Sunday, August 5,  2007

We often make jokes about people who talk to themselves.  But the truth is that this is something that we all do and we do very few things that are more important.  Almost every deliberate move we make can be traced back to some conversation we had with ourself sometime earlier.  

In today’s Gospel, Jesus told a story about a man who held a conference with himself, somewhere deep within his own heart.  First, he asked himself a question: “What shall I do? I don’t have space to store my harvest.”  That was the topic of his conversation - how to handle the problem of a bumper crop and no place to put it.  Then he answered his own question: “I’ll tear down my barns and build larger ones.”  Then he made an appraisal of his circumstances:  “You have so many good things stored up for many years.”  And finally, on the basis of that appraisal, he gave himself a bit of advice: “Rest, eat, drink and be merry.”  

Something like that is going on inside everyone of us, almost continually.  The problems that we’re facing may be dramatically different than the rich man in the story, but our approach to solving them is often essentially the same.  In important matters we first talk it over within ourself.  If we’re wise, we’ll ask the advice of others whom we trust.  But wise or unwise, we always seek our own counsel.  Every great decision has first been talked through in the secret chambers of our own heart.

That’s why this is such an important issue.  What we’re going to do tomorrow, how we’ll handle issues and pressures and temptations and tragedies and anything else depends, to a large measure, on what we’re saying to ourself right now.

The man in our Lord’s story has forever been labeled a fool.  He was given that title by the Son of God, not because he talked to himself, but because of the way he did it.  His inward conversation was filled with foolishness.

For example, it’s obvious that he thought of life only in terms of himself.  Repeatedly he used the first person pronouns: I, me and mine.  Never once did he mention a neighbor or a friend or even a family member.  Worst of all, he made no reference to and, apparently, had no thought of God.  Judging from the content of his inward conversation, you might suppose that he was the only person in the world.  

And it’s certainly clear that he considered himself to be a self-made man.  Everything that he had was exclusively from his own doing and every achievement was due to his personal genius and diligent effort.  No one else had contributed anything and no one else needed anything.  He was concerned about no problems but his own.   He was aware of no one’s presence but his own.  How foolish can anyone get?

My friends, we need to talk to ourself about ourself, but we need to do it honestly and realistically.  There are a lot of people in this world beside you and me.  And if we’re wise, we’ll remind ourself of that fact on a regular basis.  It would be a good thing if we would take some time this week to talk to ourself about the people who have made a positive contribution in our life to bring us to where we are today.  If we do that, we may find ourself writing some letters or speaking some words of appreciation.  At the very least, we’ll find ourself being grateful.  And what a healthy thing it is for us to do that.

It would also be good if we would talk with ourself about the needs of some other people.  If we do, we may find ourself reaching out to help.  At the very least we’ll find ourself caring and, perhaps, realizing that our own needs are not always as urgent nor as serious as we had thought.  

Go back to the conversation which the rich fool had with himself.  “What shall I do?  I have no place to store my harvest?”  Suppose he had answered; “I know.  I’ll share my abundance with the workers who helped to produce it.  Then whatever is left over, I’ll distribute some of it to the poor.”

If he had said those things, he would be remembered for his wisdom instead of his stupidity.  He could have changed his entire life by changing the way he talked to himself.  And you and I can do the same thing by reminding ourself of the wants and needs, the hurts and the heartaches of people around us.

And the third thing that’s evident from his inner conversation is that he thought of success and happiness only in terms of material things.  He looked at all of his wealth and told himself to do four things: to relax, to eat heartily, to drink well and to enjoy life.  That was his shopping list.  Those were the things that he intended to buy with his money.  But that was so foolish.  He could go to the store, reach in his pocket and buy only two of those things -- something to eat and something to drink.  The other two were not and cannot be bought.  Money can’t buy relaxation and money cannot buy happiness.  

We need to be talking to ourself about the limitations of money.  It can do a lot of things.  It can open a lot of doors.  It can provide a lot of opportunities.  But there are some things that it can’t do, among which are the most important things in life.  Money can’t buy a clear conscience or genuine affection or inward courage or spiritual strength.  Those things are just not for sale -- never have been and never will be.

The man in Jesus’ story thought of success primarily, if not exclusively, in terms of money and the things that money can buy.  Our modern society does the same thing.  He was dead wrong and so are we if we think like he did.  

Do you know what a successful person is?  People are successful if they appreciate beauty, both in their fellow human beings and in the world.  They’re successful if they can recognize the good in others, even when it’s hard to see.   They’re successful if they to leave the world a little bit better than the way they found it and if they know that even one person has had it a little easier because of them.  They’re successful if they feel grateful to God for all that God has given them and if they’ve demonstrated that gratitude by the generosity they show to others.

That’s what true success really means.  And down deep inside, I think we all know that but we need to hear it over and over again.  We need to talk about it in the deepest part of our heart because it’s there that we encounter God and it’s there that we reveal to Him, as well as to ourself, what we really believe.

 

Fr. Robert J. Cole Pastor
Sunday, July 22,  2007

I read recently that Hallmark Cards is celebrating its sixtieth year of using the phrase that someone who sends one of their cards “cares enough to send the very best.”  Apparently those who study advertising say that that slogan is one of the best recognized advertising lines in America.

And Hallmark isn’t alone in their marketing of caring.   About 25 years ago their competitor, American Greetings, came up with the idea of Care Bears.  Those colorful little bears quickly evolved from cartoons to collectible stuffed animals to an animated movie in no time at all.  American Greetings also hopes you will equate their product with caring.  Besides, what says “I care” more than a huggable lovable Care Bear?

The point is this, we all want to be known as caring people. In fact, few virtues are more noble.  Whether the care is expressed in polite thank you notes or a compassionate presence during a time of someone’s suffering or remembering birthdays with unique gifts, truly caring people are appreciated in today’s impersonal world.  No one wants the reputation of being a careless or an uncaring individual.  Few things sting as much as when someone says, “You just don’t care, do you?  In fact, all you care about is yourself.”  I wouldn’t want someone to say that to me and I don’t think parents like to hear that from their kids and I don’t think anyone at all likes to hear it from a friend.

As you might imagine, our Lord was the incarnation of caring and compassion.  So all of us who call ourselves Christian, a name which  means “Little Christ”, should aspire to be like Christ and to treat others like He did.  The examples of Christ’s care are plentiful.  He looked out on the multitudes gathered in front of Him and He had compassion on them.  He wept over Jerusalem, even though He would suffer greatly at the hands of those who lived there.  He continually saw the least and the lost and the last within a crowd, those who were invisible to others, and He was moved to heal and bless them.  He made room on his lap for little kids and embraced them with loving arms.  And finally, on the cross, where He died for all of humanity, He offered words of compassion for the thief hanging beside Him and spoke words of forgiveness to those who drove the nails and who laughed while He died.  No one in human history cared like Jesus cared.

And yet, here in today’s Gospel, we hear Martha accuse Him of the unthinkable.  In those days, people didn’t have last names.  But if Martha would have had a last name I think it would have been Stewart because she was obsessed with care about every detail as she hosted Jesus and his disciples for a meal in the home she shared with her sister, Mary.  But while Martha was sweating the details as well as the heat in the kitchen, Mary was sitting at the feet of Jesus listening to his teaching.  Finally Martha had had enough and she snapped at Jesus with the ultimate insult, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me by myself to do the serving?  Tell her to help me.”

That must have stung.  “Lord, don’t You care?”  How could she say that, especially to Jesus, someone who was the very embodiment of care?  She was accusing Him of being an uncaring individual.

Let me put in an aside here for all those of you who are responsible for the care of someone else.  If Jesus himself could be accused from time to time by those closest to Him of being uncaring, those of you who are parents and teachers and best friends shouldn't be surprised to hear the same accusation from time to time coming out of the mouths of those whom you care about.  One of the most difficult things to do when you’re a caregiver is to continue to extend loving and forgiving care to the very ones who say to you, “You don’t care about me!”  If you care for a rebellious child or an aging parent or a hurting friend, you know the pain I’m talking about.  It hurts to hear those words because they’re just not true. And you know they’re not true.  But just like our Lord, sometimes we’re going to be accused of things that aren’t accurate or are misperceived.  We, too, will have to suffer, primarily because the words are undeserved.

But back to the story.  Actually, Martha wasn’t the first one to say to our Lord, “Don’t You care?”  Earlier in the Gospel, when the Apostles were out with Jesus in a boat during a bad storm, He was asleep while they were rowing for their lives.  In their fear, they cried out the same thing.  They shouted, “Lord, don’t you care that we’re going to drown?”  Well, of course, He cared.  He calmed the storm around them and then set about calming the storm within them.  Like the anxious and angry Martha, the fearful disciples let their emotions blur their insight and erase their memory.  When we’re afraid or when we’re hurting or when life seems unfair, we, too, are often tempted to throw that same accusation against God.  When something terrible happens in our life, we can find ourself saying, “Lord, don’t You care?”  It’s only natural to feel that way.  And God doesn’t get mad at us, any more than Jesus got angry with those who accused Him of not caring.  When we’re hurt, when we don’t understand, when we’re afraid, we say things and we pray things to God that we might not say in a calmer time.

But even a hurtful prayer is still a prayer.  And that’s the main thing to God.  He doesn't get his feelings hurt and go off in a corner of heaven to sulk when we honestly tell Him how we feel.  Better a poorly worded prayer in a difficult time than no prayer at all.  Eventually all of us will feel like Martha.  And whether we say it aloud or not, sometimes we may question whether God really knows our situation or cares enough about our problems.  In a safer time we know better, sure.  But in an unsafe time, when the world is crashing down around us, we join with Martha and the Apostles and ask, “Lord, don’t You care?”

And the answer, the tender and persistent answer, from our Lord is, “Yes, I do care.  More than you can imagine.  More than you will ever know or understand.”  His care may not result in the storm being stilled or the pain being lessened or the cancer being cured; at least not on our time table.  But trust God on this one, my friends.  He does care.  How do we know that?  Because He did so much more than send a greeting card into our distress.  God sent us his own Son into our life.  He truly cares, enough to send the very best.
 

 

 

Fr. Robert J. Cole Pastor
Sunday, July 15,  2007

The parable of the good Samaritan is as old as the New Testament and as modern as the morning paper.  It’s a story about violent crime.  A man traveling from Jerusalem to Jericho was beaten and robbed and left beside the road half dead.  It’s a story about people’s reluctance to get involved.  Two men came by, saw the victim lying there, but made no effort to help him.  But it’s also a story about that rare and wonderful individual who sees a need and does whatever is necessary to meet it.  A Samaritan came upon the wounded man and ”was moved with pity at the sight.”

His sympathy was immediately translated into practical service.  He administered roadside first aid.  Then he carried the man to an inn and cared for him through the night.  The next morning, before leaving, he made arrangements for his continued care, until the man could travel again.

That story is our Lord's interpretation of an ancient Jewish law found in the book of Leviticus.  It says, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”  We’ve all heard that commandment.  We know it’s in the Bible and we know that it meant a lot to Jesus.  And I’m sure we all agree that it’s a beautiful concept.  

But often we don’t take it seriously.  Suppose we did.  Suppose we decided to try to live by it, truly to love our neighbor as ourself. What would that mean in your life and in mine?  Where and how would we start?

For one thing, we’d have to define the word “neighbor”.  Who is it that we’re going to try to love as we love ourself?  Jesus told this story in response to that very question.  A man who knew the law, believed in it and apparently wanted to live by it, asked Him, “Who is my neighbor?”

That was a widely discussed and sharply debated question  in those days.  The Jews didn’t consider non Jews as neighbors.  The Gentiles were strangers and aliens who didn’t belong to God’s Chosen people.  They were foreigners.  The Greeks were regarded as barbarians and the Romans were hated for being the occupying power.  The world was deeply divided by racial, religious, social and cultural boundaries.  But Jesus would have no part in that.  With one simple story, He crossed over all boundaries and erased all of the lines that separated people from people.  “There was a man going down from Jerusalem to Jericho.”  Who was that man?  What was his race?  His religion?  His social standing?  His culture?

It’s commonly assumed that the man was a Jew since his journey began in Jerusalem.  That may be a reasonable assumption.  But nonetheless, it’s an assumption.  The fact is that Jesus didn't identify the man at all, except by gender.  And the only reason He did that was to make the story believable.  No woman would have traveled that dangerous road alone.  In the eyes of Jesus, the lone traveler was simply “a man”, and probably not a very smart man to be walking that road by himself.  As to race, he could have been a Jew or a Gentile.  As to religion, he could have been a faithful worshipper of God or he could have been an idolater or an atheist.  As to character, he could have been virtuous or despicable.

Our Lord left all such questions unanswered because, in his mind, none of them was a factor.  The only thing that mattered to Him was the fact that a human being lay wounded beside the road and needed help.  Two men came by and saw him there but made no attempt whatever to render aid.  

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